Am I attractive to
Have you ever asked yourself this question: am I
attractive to girls? Every guy did
and these are the right ways to become highly attractive to
This is what this article is about, get attractive
girls to like you and find you very appealing.
Why should girls feel attracted to you?
You need to find answers to these questions and fast.
- The first thing you must look at is your
If you don't take care of your looks, you aren't attractive
to girls, period.
Most guys are unable to understand that buying an expensive
sport shoe or getting the latest jeans isn't efficient to
They will put money and sacrifices without putting a more
very essential resource which is caring.
Yes, to look good, you have to care about yourself and your
Without care, girls will very rapidly pick up that you
aren't truly attractive and you are fake.
To care about your looks, the first thing you must do is to
get an education.
You need to become "looks literate" in other words; you have
to know how to dress and what to choose.
I've said in numerous articles that you can ask a girl to
help you choose an outfit or cologne; this is just a short
The real opportunities to look attractive to girls are
inside specialized literature and people.
Don't be a "processed" guy, you shouldn't always relay on
others to pick your clothes, you need to become a "stylish"
guy, this is by far the most attractive thing for a girl in a
Here are some places you need to start looking at for
getting an education to become "stylish":
Retail website (a great example is Banana
Republic), go there and simply look at
the clothes combinations and how they fit with each
Gay magazines and gay photo-shoots, I know that this would
be the last thing a straight guy would do, trust me, gay guys
have a lot to teach us and style is one of these things, they
are naturally stylish, period.
Girls' magazines, one of the best resources to get your
knowledge on becoming attractive to girls, look at the male
models there and see the ones that look like you and copy their
The final resource is girls themselves. Whenever you ask a
girl to go with you to pick some clothes, be curious and ask
her about her choices and "why?" and how come?" she will give
you her secrets.
- The second thing is to look at your
If you don't have the right personality around girls, they
will hate you and they will certainly avoid you.
I hate to say this to guys, but personality is pretty
important when it comes to making girls attracted to you.
I can confidently say that your personality is the
foundation in attracting girls, without it, your techniques
will look so fake and shallow.
Here are the things you have to focus on for developing an
attractive personality for girls:
The first one is a "lack of care of the
outcome", this one is the most important one, if a
girl sees that you put too much attention on her and her
decisions, she will hate it and hate you.
However, a girl who notice that you don't care that much
about her decisions and thoughts of you, especially romantic
ones, and that you are having a great fun whether she is with
you or not, will follow you and go crazy for you, trust me, she
will if you've got a great complete life whether you are dating
her or not.
The second personality trait you should develop at all cost
I know, I'm sounding very strange here and
But, truly, what attracts girls to guys?
It's trust! Yes, trust.
All girls are looking for guys that can be trusted and that
will lead them and protect them.
And a girl can't trust a guy if he has got low
The only advice I can give you in this article is to go buy
a fantastic book by Nathanial Brandon called the six pillars of
self-esteem and to do the exercises there.
At first, you are going to see no transformation and
effects, but after a short period, you are going to find
yourself turning into a girls' magnet, they will natural rotate
around you and find you attractive.
- The third one is to pay attention to your body
Body language is the way you behave around girls.
This is the way girls use to know about you, your
personality, and whether you are attractive or not.
To get it handled, use what I've used when I was starting to
learn how to become attractive to girls:
- Always think of yourself as a mature confident
- Walk and move slowly.
- Talk less.
- Listen more.
- Turn your face and body slightly away from girls when
interacting with them.
- Have a direct eye contact with girls.
- See yourself moving and behaving, in other words,
notice what you are doing when with girls.
If you pay attention to these three components, you won't
need to ask the question: "am I attractive to
girls?" again, because you will be and to learn the
secret to keeping a woman attracted to you.