Dating rich women, any issues?
I’ve written a post some weeks ago about dating rich women,
how to do it, where to find them and how to behave with them
once dating them.
Some days ago, I received an email from a guy asking me this
question: “she is not very rich, but she earns more than me,
These are the exact words he used, I think I know what he’s
talking about: a woman earning more than the man and whether
it’s an issue in dating or not.
I think it’s worth asking such a question, especially if you
don’t know a lot about how to handle such a situation.
Here is my main idea: it’s ok, but you have to be
Don’t be astonished by me agreeing that it’s not a big deal,
if you are the man and holding your role with her well, then
everything will be great between you two.
However, for most men, things are not going to be the
Most guys are going to think long about it and are going to
start figuring some ideas around themselves and would start
having huge doubts on their abilities, for example, a man would
think that because she earns more than him, she has the right
to have more power than him in the relationship and that she
can command him and even disrespect him when he has done
This is what will make most men fail to achieve a great
balance between themselves and the woman; this is what is going
to make such a deal bad between the two.
Whenever doubt installs between a man and a woman, things
will never be the same.
Here is what a man should be thinking when the woman is
making more than him: “yes, so what?!”
That’s all you need to think about when confronted with a
Because if you start thinking in terms of pennies and
dollars, you will tear any affection you have for each
The best way I’ve found so far is to be able to hold your
end of the deal, this means that you can pay for her and
provide for her and then let her do whatever she wants with her
This will bring me to the next thing I’d like to talk to you
about: thinking that you and a woman are equal.
It’s not the case; a woman is very different from a man.
A woman wants her man to be able to pay for her and provide
for her, this doesn’t mean that he should pay beyond his
abilities and earnings; he should just be able to earn a decent
You are wrong if you think that she ought to split the bills
with you and pay the expenses of living with you, women may
have earned great liberties, which is great, but deep down,
they still want to see that it’s you the man who is carrying
the household on your shoulder and that you don’t ask her for
Women pay close attention to this a lot.
If you don’t like the idea of her earning more than you,
then you have to find fault in you and not her.
Simply accept your role and be ready to be a man to her, she
could earn a million bucks a day and still be a woman at the
end of the day, and if she doesn’t like what you can give to
her, then she is free to leave.