Thirty five ways to make a
woman happy to be with you
Here are thirty five ways on how to make a woman happy that
every man must know.
This post came as a request and a question from a friend of
mine, he has been learning about dating and meeting women for a
very long time and he always have told me that he couldn’t
understand women a lot.
So, here is this little guide that will help him and you to
understand what will drive a woman crazy about a man and how
you can apply it too.
The first way to make a woman happy to be with you is:
Women are biological creatures too, like us men, they have
attraction for certain biological traits and are naturally
looking for them in men all the time.
One of the most neglected qualities by men trying to please
women is being a leader.
Your role as a man was to lead your family through the
savannah, and let me tell you that you didn’t change that
A man who’s going to ask a woman where to go and what to do
will always trigger a little “warning signal” inside of her
that will tell her: “run away, this guy is weak!!!”
However, a man who’s going to take a woman by the hand and
take her where he wants to will trigger inside a woman this
signal of: “I don’t know why, but I like this guy.”
2. The second way is
by teasing a woman
How can you tell a child that you like him or her?
Do you express it by words? It would be so lame and “not
true”, however, if you take it and tease it and play with it,
the child will definitely see you as a comforting person and a
loving one too.
Tease women, they like the feeling and they’d feel greatly
I still tease my mom when she is angry and soon, after some
two minutes, she is back laughing and enjoying herself.
3. The third one is
You may think that it’s not good to disappear on a woman and
I think it’s true.
But what’s really not good at all is following her
everywhere she goes!!
Want to make her happy?
Then leave her a little alone, she will miss you more.
4. The fourth way to
make a woman happy is by being nice to her
Remember her birthdays, listen to her, be ready to bring her
that glass of water she asked you for…
There is nothing more pleasing to every human being than
finding someone who is genuinely nice to him or her.
5. The fifth one is
Women hate douches, women hate guys that will not dare do
something because they “can’t”.
Let me give you an example: a friend of mine was with his
girlfriend at a Chinese restaurant, he was looking at this very
weird food the waiter brought to some guys, she was looking
He asked the waiter about it and he told them that it was
some tongues with a strange greenly sauce.
His girlfriend looked repelled by it; he ordered it for
himself and started eating it.
He told me that his girlfriend didn’t want to kiss him after
the meal, but there was something in her eyes that told him “I
like being with you”
Women love it when you take risks, even smaller ones, it’s
in their DNA, they want to be with a pack leader, not a
6. The sixth one is
Do you kiss her? Do you touch her on her face when she
smiles at you, do you make love to her the way she wants?
It’s your role as a man to learn how to satisfy a woman.
7. The seventh way is
to be stupid
I’m a man and I hate “over-the-top” serious people, I just
hate them, I can’t stand them for one minute.
With women, it’s totally different; they can’t stand them
for five seconds.
If you are a serious guy, then you are in very serious
troubles with women.
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8. The eight one and
probably the best one is to be a child
Be curious, keep learning things, make her laugh, slap her
gently on the face and run, show her a candy and don’t give it
to her, wrestle her and then cheat and run away … be a kid in
front of her and for god’s sake, stop caring about what she
would think, that’s the first thing you need to get rid of.
9. The ninth one is
asking her for help
We tend to think of a “real” man as an island, isolated from
the rest of the world!
This is not true, even the strongest and toughest of men
will need help one day.
Then why not help from your woman?
It’s ok to come up to her and tell her, sometimes, about
your issues and problems; she’ll feel valued and loved by
Don’t hold up to yourself, she wants to listen to you and be
your confident, just don’t overdo it, don’t come up every night
and tell her your whole day’s story, she will hate it, you have
to keep some mystery to yourself.
10. The tenth way to
make a woman happy is to be enigmatic
Again, don’t tell her everything there is to know about you,
better yet, tell her some minor things and keep her guessing
for the major ones.
Try to involve her but not fully.
For example, don’t tell her that you’ve been to Hawaii,
Mexico and France; just tell her that you’ve been abroad
It’s more rewarding when she finds out all by herself than
when it’s you telling her everything there is to know about
11. The eleventh one
is be arrogant
Let her know that you like yourself and that there is
nothing in this world that would make you say the contrary, if
you did something good and she noticed it, be arrogant about it
and tell her it was you.
Men will think that being humble is good, well, it’s not,
being humble will make the others underappreciate you.
Be arrogant especially when you are teasing her, it’s the
best kind of teasing there is.
12. The twelfth way
is be insolent
I don’t mean here that you must say bad things to her or
No way, what I’m referring to is not being good every time
she sees you.
One thing that all women suffer from is boredom; women will
get bored very quickly, even of good things.
You need to be a great guy most of the times and sometimes
distant and cold.
She needs to learn that she shouldn’t take you for granted
13. The thirteenth
one is be highly independent
Don’t wait for her to prepare you dinner to eat, prepare it
for yourself once in a while.
If you find a better opportunity with another career, tell
her about your decision to change career.
You get the idea here: don’t make her the judge and the
owner of your life, be independent with your decisions and
14. The fourteenth
way is to have courage
Don’t be a coward!
If you see that she is scared, comfort her.
If she heard something, don’t make her go look, be the one
to do it.
If she is with you, choose to take her from a more secure
route instead of a dangerous shorter one.
If she asks why, give her the idea that you are a protector,
not a frightened guy.
“I’d go from there if I was alone, but not now.”
She may ask you if you: “are you scared?”
Simply look her in the eyes and keep driving.
15. fifteenth: be
Open doors for her, take her hand when crossing the street,
pull out chairs for her… women like it.
compliment her once a month
The most direct way to bore a woman with you is to tell her
ten compliments a day.
Instead, make it as a rule to never compliment her all the
time, only once a week or even once a month.
I’m going to tell you this: women don’t like it when you
don’t compliment them and they also don’t like it when you
compliment them every now and then.
Be rare with your compliments, they are going to be much
17. Number seventeen
is: tell her about the competition
Here is one thing I notice most great guys with women do a
lot: they will tell her about a certain girl looking at them or
a woman being too nice with him.
One more thing: don’t do it if it’s not true, only tell her
this when it’s really happening to you.
Women love to know that the man with them is wanted by other
A woman feels much complimented when she knows that her man
is in high demand and she is the one having him.
Don’t overdo it!
18. The eighteenth
one is: make her understand you are not hers
If she is too possessive of you and would even oblige you to
stay with her for a very long time…
Tell her that you want some space for yourself.
Women do it with possessive men and why shouldn’t you do it
Tell her frankly that she is behaving like if she owns you
and you need to feel some space.
It’s rude, but for a woman, she will know that you are
independent and a very valuable man.
19. Nineteenth: Be
ready to leave
I remember a friend once finding that his girlfriend was
having an emotional affair with someone from another
He asked me for advice and I told him to dump her, he didn’t
want to and she finally dumped him.
Be ready to leave when you see that things aren’t that good
Don’t let her believe that you will be hers forever no
Always be ready to leave her, even if it’s going to another
room or another place without her.
Women love to know that they are with a tough man.
Your woman loves to know that you won’t tolerate her
flirting and being teased by another man!
Believe it or not, they want you to be possessive of
My girlfriend always told me that she loved me even more
when I’d tell her that she is mine and I’d kill any man trying
to take her from me!
I know, a little extreme, but she loved it.
20. Number twenty:
Do you know a guy who would wear the same shirt, same shoes,
same jeans over and over and over ….
Boring people are invisible!
Don’t be boring to her; keep changing, the way you dress,
and even the way you act around her.
My friend, you are not a rooted tree in hard soil, if you
don’t like where you are or a situation, change it.
And please, keep evolving every day.
Become better every single day.
21. Twenty one is: Be
ready to act
Women are very nice to be with, they are loving and kind,
but sometimes, they can be real pain in neck!
There is one thing that will kill your attraction for her
and it’s nagging.
Here is the deal about nagging: if you let her do it, she
will think that it works and she will keep doing it.
Stop her the moment she starts nagging you, be ready to
However, nagging is an annoying thing, but it can be a sign
that something is not ok, before stopping her, try to think of
what you did to her or whether her nagging is legitimate or
22. Twenty two: Be
Why not lift her with your strong arms, take her to the bed
room and make love to her for hours!
Why not take her from the kitchen, hold her hands tightly,
put her against the fridge and kiss her passionately!
Women love it when you are strong with them, I’ve said it
before, it’s in their DNA.
But, don’t overdo it, you will become boring and will look
stupid when she would stop you dead cold.
23. Number twenty
three: Be sexual
Women don’t like impotent men.
I’ve heard that in one study, women who were making love at
least three times a week were shown to be way happier than
Don’t deprive her of this natural craving, make love to her
often and please, learn the right way to do it, don’t hesitate
to ask for help or even buy a book about it, there are many
great ones, just ask.
24. The twenty four
way is to: Be romantic
Once in a while, call her on the phone and tell her that you
love her, send red roses to her workplace.
Ask her out again and take her to a nice place.
Whisper sweet words in her ears, promise her endless nights
kissing her ...
Women spend billion of $$ in the US alone
Be her prince charming.
25. The twenty fifth
way is to cuddle more
Try to take advantages of those times when she is watching
her favorite TV show, sit next to her and hold and hug her,
then simply lean on her and be weak in her presence.
Cuddle with her in bed, it’s one of the joys of being with
26. Twenty sixth:
Are you a naughty boy?
Why not become one!
You can’t imagine the number of women that would like their
men to be naughty with them in bed.
The secret is in being loving and dominant at the same
See if it’s her thing, you may be surprised to know how many
women would love some bed games sometimes.
27. Twenty seventh:
learn to kiss
I’ve long thought that kissing was a natural thing that we
Well, apparently not!
All men are not equal kissers, in reality, most men are
Kissing a woman the right way is like complimenting her and
telling her that you love her.
It’s doing an extra effort to show how much you care for
Learn to kiss; there are so many guides and manuals
28. Number twenty
eight is: make a good living
Don’t rely on her to pay the rent or put food on the
I know that with all these talks about equality and equal
rights, a lot of men have started thinking that it’s a good
thing to share the bills and the rent.
Well, as I’ve told you before, women are still biological
creatures, just like men, they still want a dominant male to be
And how can you be dominant when you ask her about her share
of the rent??!
It’s expensive to support a family, but it’s rewarding and
at the end, it’s more natural than begging her to help you with
some money and appearing as weak in front of her.
Women want you to be able to support their “basic”
I’m not telling you here to buy her expensive champagne,
gold from head to toes…
No, support her with the basic things and other things if
you can, don’t get in debt to make her feel “happy”.
Remember, if she doesn’t like you, she can always leave, no
one if forcing her to stay.
This is a long discussion that I’m obliged to write more
29. Number twenty
nine is: don’t lean on her
In other words, don’t ask for her approval of you and her
blessings on something you want to do.
If you like something, go do it.
Remember: be independent.
30. The thirtieth way
is: follow your goals
Do you have some future projects you want to accomplish?
Do you want to change careers?
It’s very important to have some goals you strive for,
especially when you are with a woman.
Goals give meaning to our lives and women understand
All leaders have one thing in common: they have got a
Have a vision of yourself and of your future.
31. The thirty first
way is to spend time away from her
Do you have friends?
Good, spend time with them too.
Don’t be her pet dog, all the time at her knees or only a
few inches from her, go out alone and have your own life.
32. Thirty two is: Be
Don’t lie to protect the relationship or to keep her with
you, it’s the best way to end a relationship.
You need to ban lying from your communication with her,
unless you are teasing her.
It will sound so destructive to not lie, but the reality is
that lying will cause more damages than good.
However, don’t be an open book to her; don’t bring past
demons and past relationships to her knowledge, let sleeping
33. Number thirty
three is: Be yourself
Don’t try to be someone you are not.
If you love baked beans, don’t tell her that you don’t!
Number thirty four: Be better than the others
There is an insane number of men out there!
Always remember this!
Try to see with your own eyes what will make a woman want to
be with you, better yet, take paper and a pen and write it.
Then, keep adding more things by learning and bettering
34. Number thirty
four: Don’t make her the center of your universe
Don’t be needy!
Don’t make her the center of your life, get a life too.
35. And finally,
number thirty five: look her right in the eyes.
Eye contact is the language of love, honesty and empathy,
use it a lot.
Those are some of the ways to make a woman happy to be with
you as a man, here are some bonus ones to remember too:
Help her in the kitchen, learn to play a musical instrument,
have a flat stomach, be sober, remember your first date with
her, kiss her before you go to bed and after you wake up.
Thanks for reading.