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Nowadays, whenever you say the phrase online dating, the
first thing that would come to your mind is a giant like
eHarmony or Match.com with their thirty bucks a month
subscription fees and millions of subscribers.
I won’t say that these services are bad and not worth
investing in, in contrary, I would say that they are a far
greater and wiser option than the other services on the
However, most people tend to forget that there are some
great services and secrets online to finding a date
for zero bucks, yes, for free.
I’ll give you in this post
four secrets you can use immediately to find lots of dates
online and for free.
The first of these services is match and eHarmony
Wait a second!!! Haven’t I told you that these services are
Yes I did, but if you reread the first words of this post,
you will find the word: “secrets”.
I’m going to give you a little trick that have worked for me for the last two and
half years and with which I’ve dated dozens of women for free,
without paying a dime.
But first, a warning: don’t make this secret available to
other guys; the people at these dating sites are going to find
a way to get rid of this trick if they see a lot of people
This trick is simple, first you need to go to match.com and
create a free account with them, provide your email address and
all the needed information, without the credit card of
Then, you simply search for women in your city or where you
would like to meet them.
Now, pay attention, you are going to copy the woman’s full
name if available and her city and then go to Facebook and look
for her there.
If you can only see her nickname, fine, from my experience,
most people would use the same nickname with all the other
services they are subscribed to.
It’s this simple.
Facebook is free and will not cost you a penny.
The second way to find a date online for free is to use
I’ve already told you about the match.com technique with
Facebook, but before getting it working for you, you need to do
some work first.
The very first thing is to post some very gorgeous pictures
of yourself, no clubbing pictures or drunk pictures, I’ve seen
lots of profile of apparently nice girls, but when I navigated
their photos’ section on Facebook, I found them half
Almost every woman would first look at your pictures and if
she finds something horrible in there, it would be a total deal
breaker for her.
A little dirty secret is to use a service like
hotornot, post lots of your
photos there and let people rate them.
Use only photos that have got a rating above nine on your
Facebook photos’ section.
The next thing is to have a rich wall.
When a woman accepts your invitation into Facebook, she
won’t do it because she likes you or because she knows you, she
will do it because you are interesting to her.
I take this example from my personal life, whenever someone
invites me into becoming friends on Facebook, the second thing
I’d have a look at after his pictures is his wall, if he is
very lazy and has little things going on, I’d cancel the
friendship immediately and I’d know that he is only interested
in the girls I know, however, if he has a rich life and very
nice things going with his buddies, I feel drawn to know more
and I’d even chat with him.
With women, it’s a hundred times stronger; women will
always look for social proofs that you are a great guy.
It’s easy to have a rich life in Facebook, just go set
Facebook to search into your main email address, and then
simply invite all your friends.
Start talking and sharing with the whole group, find amusing
posts and funny pictures or videos online, share them and have
Never criticize people in your wall, don’t be an ass, just
have fun, if you don’t like what a person is saying, fine,
After you feel that your Facebook account looks attractive
enough, start inviting these women you’ve found on
Look for the names first, then to make your search more
accurate, use the city where they live.
When you find one, send her an invitation with a small
message telling her that you found her profile on match.com and
that she looks “nice” and “healthy” (it never hurts to be funny
with women on the first occasion), “but there was a system
error on match.com”, so you went and looked for her on
The wonderful thing I’ve found is that on match.com and
other websites, there will be a lot of competition from other
men and women will tend to have their inbox flooded with
requests, but on Facebook, due to the system protecting its
users, she will be totally devoted to you when she accepts you
as her friend and you’d have much greater chances of succeeding
Here is the catch here:
Facebook won’t allow too many friend
invitations from your part!!!
This can be very dangerous and you may lose your account if
you ignore it, that’s why I’d advise you to not send more than
two invitations a day and please, make sure you really write a
good, nice, message in your invitation.
After some women start accepting you, and your account being
very active, you will notice that you can send more invitations
without getting warnings from the system.
wwwOwww! That was a long section!!!
Now, the third secret to finding a date online for free
is to use MySpace.
At first, I was a true believer in MySpace and thought that
it was the perfect system, but after starting to use Facebook,
I lost faith and so did many other people.
However, one boring day, I found nothing to do; I decided to
see my old friends on MySpace.
After looking for people, I was surprised to find some
really sweet girls there too.
I asked my girlfriend about the reasons and she told me that
lots of girls are beginning to hate Facebook because they
will get blasted with invitations from douchebags every
minutes of every hour of the day, so they’ve run away from
That’s a great thing for you!
It’s true, MySpace has far less users than Facebook, but the
great new is that you don’t need 500milion users to find a
date, you only need a dozen, and MySpace has got some pretty
great ones too.
The recommendations are the same with Facebook, don’t invite
a lot of people until you’ve build a strong social life.
The fourth secret to finding free dates online is to head
to free chat rooms.
One of the best ones is yahoo chat!
There are all kinds of interests and topics to chat
However, I tend to dislike it a little as most of the women
in most chat rooms are just computer programmers designed to
make you buy a porn subscription!!!
I’ve found a way out :)
This way is to only go for the little moderated chat
For example, last month, I was looking for home remedy for
a flu, I went and found a little
chartroom filled with great people, a woman there helped me
with some information, she was very nice and very helpful and
if I wasn’t already in a relationship, I’d have asked her for
her email address.
Yahoo chats! Can be a little frustrating and adventurous,
but there are some real gems that are still left uncovered.
All these can seem pretty overwhelming and time consuming,
but remember, you are the one who have asked for ways to
find a date online for free :) it’s a little tough,
but it can give you some great FREE results.
My advice is to apply the match.com + Facebook advice first
as it’s the one that got me the most positive results.