How to get a date with a
woman in five easy steps
Follow these five easy steps to get a date with a woman
before next Sunday!
Getting a date with a woman can be a frightening and very
intimidating experience, I agree with who will say that it may
even seem impossible.
However, if you follow these five (very) easy steps, you
will definitely get a date with a woman, in fact, if you want
to, you can get as many dates with women as you want.
1.Let’s start with the first step,
which is getting ready.
It will seem so boring and so useless to focus much time on
this area of yourself, but the reality is that women will pay
much more attention to how much you’ve paid attention to this
part than the rest of the steps, and if they find that you are
not that ready, they are going to flake on you for sure.
- The first part in getting ready is getting the truth
What I’m going to say here is very important, so pay close
Women want you much more than you want
This is the first thing you need to understand when dealing
I see a lot of guys thinking and behaving that a woman will
do them a favor if she agrees to a date with them!
It’s not true; you are the one doing her a favor if you
approach her and want her.
However, there is a catch to this situation:
Not all guys are winners!
In reality, most guys are totally frightening and repulsive
- So, the second part of getting ready is actually
Here is your mission:
Look good, smell good, and behave great.
Look good is all about the looks and your appearances.
It’s a highly important area that you absolutely need to get
To look good in the eyes of women, follow these simple
Dress casual and dress great.
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they have great choices of clothes and great selections, you
don’t need to buy from them, just copy the way they select
their clothes and the shoes that go with them.
The smell part: you must smell wonderful!
Women will like you more if you smell great.
The best cologne you can buy is Marc Jacobs for men.
Go get it from eBay, it’s cheap and very classy and
The behavior part is all about walking and holding yourself
the right way.
You may think that all this is complicated and IT’S
You are totally right, it’s very complicated to change
yourself all of a sudden, but bear in mind that I’m giving you
here what works with women, and remember, the old “real” you
didn’t attract much women!!
So, let’s continue, body language is an essential part of
You may have read in some articles that you should do some
impossible postures to get women interested!
I don’t agree!
With body language, I have three rules:
Hold yourself up
Don’t smile a lot
Apply these and you will look way sexier and attractive than
most men on your block.
Ok, that should do it for the first step.
Let’s see the second step to getting a date with a
2.Approaching a woman
The most difficult one, I won’t lie to you and tell you that
it’s easy or that it’s a mind game!!
Approaching women sucks!
We all hate to be rejected and especially in front of
This is the reason why I’ll give you the proper and the less
risky way to approach a woman.
First, here are some places you need to go to where you can
find women to approach.
- The super market
- Coffee shops
- Book stores
- Clothing stores
These are the most abundant places with women looking for
I could have added clubs and bars, but the reality is that
those places are terrible because they are filled with sexually
frustrated guys and the women get approached on average more
than ten times a night!!!
In reality, you will have no chance of getting a date from
Be great looking and go to one of first places I
Let’s suppose you are at the supermarket, you noticed a nice
looking brunet doing her shopping.
Your first task is seeing whether she is with someone, a
man, if she is not, look if she has a ring on her finger, if
not, you can approach her then.
Here is the most important rule for approaching a woman:
Have a reason apart from dating her.
I see this a lot: many guys will go to a woman and approach
her because they want her!
There is no harm in wanting a woman, but the bad thing about
it is that a man would have revealed all his cards to a woman
and put himself at her mercy, which is terrible!
You need to have a reason for approaching her apart from
Let’s say that you are in a super market.
3.Step three: starting a
You can notice what she is buying and ask her about a
“Excuse me, do you know a good brand of tomato sauce, I
usual use xxx but they taste really acid!”
Most women in the world will see this not as an approach,
but as a man asking for advice, and trust me when I’ll tell you
that women love to give advices; in fact they can’t stop
themselves from not giving them, especially if you are a great
She would tell you her opinion; you just keep on asking her
about the price or something else.
Then you walk away!
Confusion is the name of the game.
You must confuse her a little, she must be wondering about
you for a little.
It will sound so strange to walk away from a woman, but it’s
the best thing to do.
Walk some few steps away and then, turn around and
4.Step four: getting her phone
My friend, you won’t be asking her for a date on your first
encounter, you need to understand this now.
A woman will have very little trust towards you in the first
few moments she met you.
Your goal is to get her phone number.
You walk away a little and then you turn back to her.
You look at her and tell her that you find her very
beautiful and that you want to meet her sometimes, then you
take a piece of paper and a pen and you hand them to her.
Ask her to write her phone number.
Usually, she will do it with a nice smile, however, there
are some women who will want to play hard to get.
If she tells you that she can’t, tease her a
little and ask her if she has got electricity at home, you need
to be funny with your teasing, then hand her again the pen and
paper and ask her to write her phone number.
If she doesn’t want to, then you’d have only one
choice: walk away.
If she wrote her phone number, tell her to write down her
After this, you walk away.
5.Step five: calling her and asking
her for a date
This is the most important step in my opinion.
Try to apply these very simple rules:
- Don’t call her immediately
- Don’t wait more than four days
- Don’t romance her on the phone.
These are some simple rules you have to make sure you
The best time to call her is after the two days period.
If you call her too soon, you will appear as boring and
needy, if you call her too late, she would have forgotten
Call her the first time and act very cool and spontaneous,
simply ask her about her work, tease her from time to time and
let her speak her heart to you.
Don’t make your phone calls an eternity, at maximum, four
That’s it, in your first phone call, you only need to talk
to her a little, don’t invite her to a date nor anything
Then, wait some two more days and call her at night.
Make sure you have a time in mind and a place you want to
take her to.
This is very important; don’t ask a woman to choose for you,
she won’t like you.
Call her, talk to her a little and then ask her if she is
free on Saturday or any other day you have planned.
Women love men who are decisive, be it with her and make
sure you tell her where exactly you will meet her and at what
These are the easiest way to getting a date with a