How to start a conversation with a woman
Here are some great techniques and tips to starting a
conversation with a woman fast:
However, by using these simple tips and techniques I’m going
to provide to you, you will start many conversations with women
easily and painlessly.
We tend to think, us guys, that women are relay another
specie, you will hear something like “what do I say?”, “she
will not replay back?” and other stuff!
Women are human after all and they are a very talkative
gender to say the least and let me tell you that if you apply
these simple techniques I’m going to share with you to start a
conversation with them, they are not only going to replay back
at you but enjoy your conversations and think of you as “The
- The first one is knowing what type of women you
are interested in.
Trust me, sounds like a very useless advice, but in fact, it
can save you days and weeks of your time and it can also save
you a lot of troubles and rejections from women.
Here is your exercise:
Take a sheet of paper and a pen and write down five things
you would like to have in a woman.
For example, here is what I’d like to have in a woman:
She must be brunet
She must be between 25 and 32
She must be more than 1.65 meter
She must have green or blue eyes
She must be average in shape, not too fat or too skinny.
By setting these criteria, I’ve narrowed my choice of women
and I’d have avoided myself much headaches from women I wasn’t
interested in on the first place.
I highly recommend you to do this exercise.
In fact, if you pass this first technique and did this
little two minutes exercise, you’d have shown a great character
and determination to get this area of your life solved.
- The second tip to starting a conversation with
a woman is finding her.
How can you start a conversation with a woman if you can’t
find her on the first place?
I’m going to give you the most important and abundant places
with beautiful and available women.
The first place is shops and health food shops, if you don’t
have one in your area, you can look for women in shops.
The second place is: coffee shops and coffee houses.
The third place is: libraries and book stores (my favorite
These are the only places you need to focus on; of course,
there are other places, but who cares!!?
The competition is usually pretty bad and the women are
In these places I’ve provided for you, women aren’t
expecting you to approach them, which is an added advantage for
- The third step is approaching her and staring a
conversation with her.
It’s the most important step so far and to say the truth,
it’s the most difficult one too.
Here are some few obstacles you must avoid before
approaching a woman:
Be very good looking, if you look anything than great, there
are fewer chances that women are going to notice you.
Smell great, women will like you more if you smell
Pay close attention to your shoes and the way you groom, a
woman once told me that the secret to attracting women is in
the details, so pay close attention to how you appear to women
on the outside.
And the most critical obstacle is the way you walk and
Women will interpret your body language like it is a matter
of life or death.
Women pay huge attention to your body language and will hate
you if they notice that you look less than confident from the
way you move and walk.
There is only one rule concerning body language:
Be slow in your moves and behaviors and you will do
Another important thing in your body language is to not
smile a lot, women hate it.
That’s all in what concerns your body language.
Let’s talk about the approach, how to approach a woman and
start a conversation with her.
Look for the one you like => establish eye contact
=>find a reason and go talk to her.
That’s the plan; in fact, it’s the most effective one at
It never fails.
You need to first see the one you like and then try to see
if she is with someone or has a ring on her finger.
If she is with a guy, avoid her, you will create troubles
for yourself if you approach her.
After seeing her, let her see you.
Simply try to establish eye contact with her, when she looks
back at you, keep looking at her until she looks away.
Women will rarely admit that they want a guy who is dominant
and has got a strong personality, but they do.
All women are looking for this kind of man and by keeping
your eye contact with her; you’ve proven yourself to be
dominant and decisive.
Now, you only need to find a reason to talking to her, in
other words, find another reason beside the obvious one (you
want to date her).
And I need to tell you that you reason must be real and have
Let me give you an example to clarify:
You saw a nice looking woman; you established eye contact
and then you noticed that she was holding some book in her
This is your reason, go to her and ask her if the book is
interesting, don’t ever walk to a girl and tell her that you
like her, she will hate you.
By doing this, you’d have started a conversation with a
woman very easily and you will only need one thing, learn how
to keep this conversation going long enough to get her phone