Does romance work with
I’ve just watched a Hollywood movie with a friend of mine. I
had to. It’s the kind of media you will find all the time on
It was a romantic movie.
While watching that movie, an idea came to my mind:
Why is the main character always pursuing the main female
character? How come it has worked for him? And most important,
does romance work with women?
This is why I’m writing these lines.
To answer the question of whether romance work or not, we
have first to define romance.
According to media, romance is showing your love to someone
else by different means (I’m paraphrasing here).
Back to attraction and seduction now, we can notice
from the previous definition the two words: showing and
We must be very careful about those two words, because when
dealing with dating, they must be present, but in a hidden
In order for you to seduce her, you must be mysterious, and
you can see now where I’m heading to.
By showing her that you are in love, you are killing the
essence of mystery, and she will hate you for it.
So, the answer is no, romance, in an excessive way, is
harmful for attraction. And we can define excessive by saying
you love her once a day ,complementing on her looks all the
time, giving her flowers and chocolate and buying her gifts ,
You can, instead of giving her the unnecessary stuff, be
playful with her, do something that she is not expecting from
you at that moment (call her from work to say that you miss
her), be daring and risk taking, be confident.
You won’t notice it, but these will be the greatest romantic
gifts you can give a woman.