How to approach a girl you don't know

In this post, I’m going to show you a step-by-step method on how to approach a girl you don't know, it’s very easy to apply!

There are many guides and methods out there that are going to teach you how to approach a girl you don't know, unfortunately, most of them are just gossip and cheap talk.

I’m going to give you here the right way to do it and I’m going to be very frank with you, no games!


The first thing you will need to understand on how to approach a girl you don't know is that most of the times, you are going to fail!

I know, very harsh, but it’s the truth!

You won’t fail because you are not desirable or you look stupid, you will fail because you will be dealing with females.

I explain:

Girls tend to be very moody and very enigmatic most of the times, for example, you may approach her this afternoon and get a no, and you may approach her tomorrow morning and get a smiling yes from her.

It has a lot to do with their periods; their mother’s not answering their calls, their brothers nagging them about something . . .

It depends!

So, don’t make yourself suffer when you don’t get a yes and don’t lose hope, it just happens!

The great thing about approaching girls you don’t know is that it will come down to a number’s game, if you try to approach ten girls a day, using my method, you are going to get six positive responses from them and so on, it’s just a number’s game.

The second thing on how to approach a girl you don't know is to be good-looking.

It’s the one thing that’s going to make you or break you when you attempt to start a conversation with a girl you don’t know.

You have to look perfect; you have to look tempting and desirable to these girls.

The first thing on your looks is to always smell great, girls love it when they are talking to a guy and he just smells fantastic.

You can get great cologne called mark Jacobs for men, it smells amazingly good.

The second thing is to look after your shoes, one girl once told me that she wouldn’t date a great friend of mine even if he’s the last man on earth, when I asked her why; she simply replied that his shoes looked horrible.

Get yourself some black or brown shoes, if you are serious, go and ask girls to pick a pair for you.

And before going out, always polish and shine them.

Then get yourself great jeans and good looking shirts.

You have to look great, it’s a must!

The third thing is to go look in the right places.

I’m not going to bore you with lots of places to find girls; I’m only going to give you the best ones.

Malls, shops and the street!

My method will apply to all these places.

Now, let’s talk about the most important step, approaching!

I’m sure that it’s one of the scariest things for guys, but it’s essential to get beyond it.

The first rule on approaching a girl you don’t know is to not wait.

I call it the “three seconds rule”!

It is simple, when you see a girl you’d like to go talk to, don’t wait more than three seconds, just go to her and say “hi!”

It’s very important to not wait, once you start hesitating, fear will start to build up and you are going to lose confidence very quickly.

The second rule on approaching girls is to always have mint gum with you!

You can’t imagine the number of bacteria you have in your mouth, billions!!!!

Chew them all the time when you are out.

Imagine this: a guy wants to ask you about something; he starts talking and the first thing you noticed is his bad breath!

It would be a terrible first impression!

The third rule is: no pick up lines!

I’m sure that this will go against a lot of your believes, but from my experience, pick up lines were a total waste of time, I’ve never got any favorable response by using them, so don’t use them too!

The fourth rule to approaching is to always have a line to say to a girl.

It’s the most important of these rules, I’m going to provide you with my own lines I use with girls all the time, they are very effective and very simple.

Here is the thing you need to do: print them on paper and learn them by heart, then face your bathroom mirror and start repeating and training to use them.

Here they are:

“Hi! I noticed that you are very beautiful and I just wanted to say it to you”

“Where is the nearest ice cream shop?”

“Where can I get to . . . .?”

That’s it!

Three lines to use all the times.

The thing you also need to know about them is to never be polite when using them, just say them straight!

The next thing to do when you get her talking to you is to get her digits, to know about this step, download my free report here: click here!

This is how to approach a girl you don't know, it’s easy if you apply my rules.