Are you with a boring girlfriend in bed? What can you do?
Well, you need to use the advice I’m going to share with you in this post, they are fantastic and they will give you true answers and lots of good ideas to use in order to have excitement, joy and lots of intimacy with your girlfriend in bed.
- The first thing you need to think of is the reason why your girlfriend is boring in bed?
Do you expect her to do everything?
Do you expect her to engage with intimacy first?
Would you like her to take a much more dominant role?
If you answered yes to all these questions, or just one of them, then the problem is with you and you are definitely putting too much pressure and too much attention on her!
Women by nature are very docile, in other words, they want you and in fact, they expect you to take the lead by your own! And as the man in the relationship, you are the one who should engage her with intimacy all the time, not the other way around!
I’m sorry to say this, but this is very important for you to understand, and if you neglect this very important idea, you will always have boring girlfriends in bed, no matter what you do, they are always going to end up depressed in your company!
- Then, what to do?
Well, the best way for you to excite your boring girlfriend again is to take your true role seriously, become a leader, become the dominant part, initiate lovemaking and kiss her passionately, most importantly, make her have desire for you, start increasing foreplay, enjoy her, but at the same time ravish her and have fun in bed together, this way, she will never become boring again, and she will always be creative and anticipating your every move in bed!
- What if she doesn’t want any of the latter?
Sometimes, you may have a very cold girlfriend, one who doesn’t like intimacy and one who is not interested in participating in passion and love making, if this is your case then, the only solution you have is to leave her!
I’ve made the decision ten years ago to never date psychologically damaged, hateful, abusive, or abused girlfriends, and it has helped me a lot, please, avoid dating such women, they are very difficult to handle, they will cause you much more troubles than bring joy to your relationships and most importantly, they will make your life worse!
If you don’t like her, dump her!
Trust me, I’ve been there, and I know that it can be very damaging to your self-esteem and self-confidence to be with a very boring girlfriend, especially in bed, you may be very excited about her, but she just makes you give up on her all the time, trust me, if you keep on being with her, yet, she doesn’t want to change and she is giving you trouble all the time, then, the only way for you to get out of this situation is to dump her, trust me, this is also a great solution.