I’m not going to lie to you, if you have a boring girlfriend, you are into deep troubles!
Not because you don’t have a lot of fun activities to do with her, but because soon, you will either hurt yourself emotionally or hurt her in some other way!
I don’t want you to do this, that’s why I’m going to help you in this post, I’m going to share with you how to make your girlfriend “not so boring“!
- First, you need to understand that your boring girlfriend is a result of your actions!
Although I may sound like blaming you, the reality is that I’m not putting the blame on you, I’m not saying that you are 100% responsible for what is happening in your relationship with your girlfriend, what I’m trying to say here is that your actions have led to your girlfriend becoming boring, for example, you chose her, you approached her, and you invited her out, you are the one who brought her into your life!
That’s why you need to take responsibility of your actions, you are the only person who got all these problems for you.
So, take responsibility for your actions and use the steps and techniques in this post to remedy them.
It may seem like a harsh thing, but it’s not, in fact, a boring girlfriend can become a wild one when you know what to do with her.
So, what to do with your boring girlfriend to make your lives less predictable?
You need to become less boring yourself.
Your boring girlfriend is going to feel fear and doubt when she starts seeing you taking actions and going out on your own, when she start seeing you becoming adventurous and interested in life, she will want to preserve your and keep you around her, this will push her to change her attitude , behavior and mind.
At least, she will do this if she loves you.
If she doesn’t love you, she will just keep on acting the same.
Should you leave your boring girlfriend?
The answer is yes, if you have tried everything possible and yet she doesn’t want to change, she is always depressed, she is always trying to bring you down and even worse, she doesn’t care about you anymore! Then, why should you stay with her?!
I’m sure that what I’m saying here is going to sound very harsh, but it’s the reality, and if you don’t take good care of yourself, who’s going to do it?
Is this all there is to do?
Unfortunately yes, these are the things you can do in order to stop your girlfriend from staying boring, you have to go out yourself, you have to push her out of her comfort zones and most importantly, you have to tell her while looking her right in the eyes that what she is doing is bringing this relationship down and it’s not good for you two.
The next thing you can do is to stay silent and offer her an opportunity to shine!
Maybe she is boring because you are taking all the initiatives and doing everything in the relationship? Why don’t you leave her some space, let her be who she is, stay silent for a while, act in a boring way, in fact, don’t do anything and let her taste her own poison!
This is very effective and will reveal to you her true personality, because if she is boring by nature, then you have to get rid of her and quickly because boredom can be very contagious!