Please, if you suffer from constant rejection from women, then, you need to read this post immediately, because I’ve got the right solution for you, I’m going to share with you the things you need to do in order to stop this problem from happening to you ever and to start getting some luck with the ladies!
The first thing you need to understand is that I was like you before, I suffered from constant rejection from women, when I was in my twenties, early twenties to be exact, I couldn’t get a date to save my life, I always was rejected by women, I could never approach them, and even worse, when I succeeded at approaching one, she would dump me the day after!
This was my situation for nearly five years until I started caring about myself and doing the things I’m going to recommend to you in this post, the wonderful thing is that they will help you tremendously improve your game, in other words, you will not get 100% approaches to work with you, but at least, you will get 60% improvement, you won’t believe the amount of success you will get and most importantly, you will notice that women are going to find you much more interesting and much more “dateable”.
- The first thing you need to understand is that you reject yourself!
It’s not women who reject you, it’s you giving them the opportunity to reject you, it’s you pushing them to reject you and say no to you!
You are either doing one of these things or maybe all of them combined:
You are approaching the wrong women all the time, women who are way above your confidence, you may be an older guy approaching younger women all the time, you may be a younger guy approaching older women all the time or you may be an average guy approaching extremely beautiful women, if none of the above is your case, then, you are not a lost cause, but if some of them applies to you, stop doing it, and mind your own business, only approach women you feel close to, it’s much more beneficial for you.
If you approach women who are your same age but you always get constant rejection from them, then there is something wrong with the way you hold yourself.
And in this case, you may be like I was, I was always wearing bad things, looking creepy and scared about what I do!
Yes, when I was young, I always would think that women should be interested in me because I was intelligent, because I was sensitive, because I was romantic, and because I was a good guy!
Well, women don’t care about these things at all, they care about how you look, you need to become like a peacock, you need to show valuable “assets”, you need to become attractive, they need to see you as gorgeous, even if you are not physically very attractive, wear nice things, take good care of the way you look by wearing nice clothes and always putting on great a cologne.
If your teeth look terrible, whiten them, get some help, it’s a must.
I’m sure that by now you must be thinking that this post is asking too much of you, and it’s the truth, in order to attract women and stop getting constant rejection from them, you need to improve yourself, you need to become truly attractive to them, after all, how can they reject a guy who looks fine, wears nice things, and smells really good?
Let me talk to you now about some few other mistakes you need to avoid:
- The first one is always approaching women who don’t know you exist!
I used to do this all the time, I used to sneak behind women and then try to start a conversation with them, trust me, I’ve caused many heart attacks, I’m sure!
Don’t do it, instead, always approach women from the sides or from the front, it’s very important.
- The next thing you need to do is to take care of your facial hair.
If you have hairs hanging from your nose or ears, bad facial hair, get rid of it, it’s a must, you need to look descent.
And let’s talk now about the bread and butter of this post, how to approach women so not to get rejected by them:
First, start by selecting your target, a woman who looks nice, approachable, who is not with a boy friend or her female friends, and seems quite happy, if she is depressed or feels lonely, stay away from her, she will drive you down as well!
Then, establish eye contact with her, look her right in the eyes, and smile, then, look elsewhere, look shy, look innocent, and look like a good guy.
Then, approach her and smile at her, then, tell her the following line:
“You seem really nice, what is your name?”
That’s it, it’s this easy! This is a rejection proof technique that will work every single time for you, and if she is not into the mood of meeting guys, she may be nice to you and she will tell you that she is busy or she isn’t interested, in both cases, you would have scored many points because you would have gained a lot of self-confidence and a lot of experience from such approach.