Fourteen deal breakers for
women when dating a man
Don’t be surprised when a woman shuts you down and dump you
cold bloodedly! These fourteen deal breakers for women will
tell you exactly what to avoid and what to focus on to become
the best man around for any woman.
It’s true, women are very sensitive and will never hesitate
to dump you and shut you down cruelly.
Sometimes, you may be thinking that it’s going great with
one and that she really likes you, but the next day, you will
find her cold and full of anger towards you, within just some
few days, she will invite you to meet her and then tell you
that she wants to be friends with you!!! Or even worse: never
tell what you did wrong!
I’ve always hated when this would happen to me and I’d hate
myself for ages because of what she did.
Worry no more, I’ll present to you in this post with the
top fourteen deal breakers for women and most
importantly, how to escape them and even never fall into one of
them in the first place.
I assure you, by the end of this post, you will be better than
99.9% of the men out there and whenever you’d talk
to a woman, she will be the one hoping you wouldn’t break up
with her :)
So, let’s begin.
The first deal breaker for women is neediness
I had to write this one first because, in my opinion, most
relationships and dates will end because of it.
It’s simply wanting the woman too much and wanting to be
with her too much.
Imagine this, you’ve met a new friend at work, he is nice
and very generous, but he doesn’t leave you alone, whenever you
stand to go to the coffee machine, you are going to find him
next to you, if he sees you talking with another person, he’d
come next to you and get involved in the conversation. . .
Would you still like this guy after a week of knowing
Of course not, you would want to quite your job by then and
you maybe thinking of some excuses for not talking to him and
With women, it’s worse.
When you call her a lot, ask for too many dates, talk to her
for long hours, tell her about your every secret and then
expect the same thing from her . . . she would hate you!!!
The best attitude with women is a laid back one,
call her only when you want a date with her, set a date with
her for just two times a week (in the first weeks of knowing
her), don’t be stuck to her, don’t expect the world to end when
she doesn’t talk to you. . .
The second deal breaker for women is
This one is pretty clear.
Let’s imagine that you’ve just met a new woman, you go with
her to a date and the next thing she hears is a compliment
about her dress, she feels flattered and think that you are
sweet and nice, then she talks a little about work and he hears
another compliment about her smile, she smiles back, after some
few minutes, another one about her hair, she begins to feel
annoyed, another one about her manners, then another one about
her hands, one about her smiles (ouch! You’ve already said this
one) . . .
By the end of the date, she is exhausted and wants to become
Think of compliments as sweet candy, and the woman as a
Would you give lots of candy to a small baby?
Of course no, you would kill the poor thing and go to
With women, I prefer to say one compliment a
It looks rude, but it works great and when the woman hears
it, she can’t believe her ears and thinks that you are the best
man in the world.
The third one is being a follower
I hate this one and think that it’s the second worse one
I once saw a great looking girl, approached her and got a
date with her.
She came and was nicely dressed; I liked her a lot by then
and didn’t want to mess things up!
So, I gave her a lethal injection of cowardliness.
I said this to her: “where would you like to
She was in shock, she didn’t know what to say and I kept on
We went to a nice coffee but the date was lousy and
I didn’t hear from her since.
. . .
You are the man, always go wherever you want and let her
follow you, if she doesn’t, then leave her alone, she would
come running to you soon.
A man’s relationship with a woman is not based on democracy,
it’s based on “positive
If you are democratic with women, they will dump your ass
The fourth one is asking too many questions
- How old are you?
- Do you have a driving license?
- How old is your mother?
- Did you grow here?
- Is your father still alive?
- Do you have a dog?
- What’s his name?
- Do you wash your hands before eating?
- What about when you go out of the bathroom?
. . .
You get the idea, no more stupid questions.
The fifth one is waiting
Your date with her was a success; she likes you and had some
crazy laughs with you.
You took her to her home, talked a little with her near her
door and then . . . you did nothing!
By then, she must be swearing to never go out with you
With women, you have to take the first step, be the
- If you don’t kiss her, she won’t do it.
- If you don’t hold her hand, she won’t do it.
- If you don’t ask her for another date, she won’t do
. . .
The sixth one is going Dutch
I was reading a dating blog the other day, it’s written by a
woman, very informative.
She told the story of a man who invited her to dinner, when
they were done, he asked her to share the bill with
Are you kidding me!!!!?
Why the heck did he invite her if he wasn’t able to pay for
Don’t do it.
The seventh deal breaker for women is putting up with her
A woman wants you to be sweet to her, but she doesn’t want
you to be a coward.
She wants you to be nice to her, but she doesn’t want you to
put up with her BS!
When you see a woman behaving badly with you or saying
something mean to you, just smile at her and tell her to say
sorry, if she doesn’t, please leave her immediately.
Most women would go extreme and test you on this, if you
call them again, you would have lost, but if you kept strong
and didn’t care about them, they will be begging you later on
and asking forgiveness from you.
Whenever you see her rude to you, not caring, being cold,
talking disrespectfully, flaking your dates . . . stop her or
she would crush your bones and heart with her manners.
The eight one is insecurities
I’m ashamed to say this, but one day, I’ve told a girl that
I don’t want her to leave me!
Do you know what she did the very next morning?
Yes, she left!
You are a man and as so, you must be strong and
self-reliant, don’t wait for a woman to make your life
complete, you are your own master; you are happy whether she is
with you or not, make sure she gets this.
The ninth deal breaker is showing emotions too
Don’t show a girl that you like her too much and/or that you
care for her, she will crush your heart.
I’m talking here about the first few dates where you need to
show a strong character, after some months, you can be her
sweetheart, but not in the first dates.
The tenth breaker is acknowledging emotions
“I love you”
“You are the sweetest girl alive”
“I like you”
“I can’t live without you”
. . . and other crap!
Don’t say these on the first dates, never, ever!
Wait four months with a woman before saying something
horrible like those.
The eleventh deal breaker is being too obvious
I have a good friend of mine, his name is George :-)
Well, when George was young, he would wear a green shirt,
blue jeans and brown boots every day for eight years
We finally named him Irish for always wearing green :-)
Don’t be like my friend George used to be, change the way
you talk from time to time, change the clothes you like, look
for new styles . . .
If a woman sees you the first date wearing something and
then sees you every time with the same clothes, she would
really start doubting you and feeling that she didn’t do the
right choice when choosing you.
The twelfth one is having no life of your own
It’s simple, don’t wait for her to make your life
interesting, first have an interesting life, then invite a
woman to join you in, don’t do it the other way around.
Have friends, have other female friends, go out on your own,
learn to cook good meals, cherish yourself with some good trips
abroad or in the country . . . spoil yourself first.
The thirteenth one is being an energy vampire
She is fun but you are dull as hell
She talks about happy things; you see only crisis and
. . .
Be fun too and don’t make pity and misery your seduction
techniques, they will only lead you to depression and
And the fourteenth deal breaker for women is seeking her
The worst of all!
Don’t wait for her to approve of you, she won’t!
Approve of yourself and try to always forgive and see the
good in yourself.
Trust me, if you don’t talk good to yourself, who will?
This world is filled with first class as*h*les who will
never give a damn about you or your problems, so don’t seek
Don’t seek especially the approval of women, it’s
Never ask her about her opinions of you
Never buy her something so as she’d like you more
Never compliment her for the sake of gaining value with
Never be her “best friend” for the sake of being her
Never tell her that you value her opinions of you
Never wait for her to give you the green light to do
Be a man and always take the lead, never care for the
opinions of others, ever.