I receive many questions from different readers on a weekly basis, and recently, I received a very important one that I wanted to write a post about for many months now, it’s the following: do women like shy guys?
And the answer is yes/no!
I know that I’m confusing so many of you right now, but this is the reality, most guys are going to think that women love shy guys, after all, they are very quiet, very nice, and most importantly, they are faithful!
But please, look at the reality: women are outgoing, they are very sociable, they want to have fun, and most of the time, they are adventurous and want a guy who is much more adventurous than them!
If you think that a shy guy is going to please a woman to a large degree, then you are wrong! The truth is that women want guys who are nearly in the same psychological position as them!
In other words, if she is shy, she may like someone who is shy as well, and if she is outgoing, she will never think of dating a shy guy, it’s true, she may fantasize about it, but she will feel horrible about being with one very quickly.
I’m sorry to say such things, but this is the reality, women who are not interesting and who are not in demand are the ones who like shy guys, they think that having them is a guarantee that they will stay faithful to them, but the truth is that the most beautiful women always love guys who are in control of their lives, guys who are sociable and very outgoing.
- What does this mean?
Does this mean that shy guys will never get laid?
Does this mean that shy guys will always have troubles in their relationships?
The truth is yes, shy guys will always suffer from being with the girl no one wants!
I was a shy guy, in fact, I still am, but I know that when I want to attract girls, they are not looking for my manners or my indoor skills, they are looking for fun, they are looking for stimulating conversations, they are looking for teasing, they are looking to be enjoyed and stimulated emotionally and physically as well.
That’s what you need to understand this: in order to have a fantastic woman in your life, you need to start changing your personality and self-confidence, you need to start going out more, you need to transform yourself into a more sociable being by going out, meeting new people, and going beyond your comfort zones, after all, this is what differentiates shy /lonely guys from successful guys with women: the first will always stay in their comfort zones while the latter will always defy their boundaries and improve who they are every single day.