Let me share with you some of the most essential playful flirting tips you can use when both interacting with men and women, and because I am a man, I’m going to refer to women, but please, you should know that these techniques I’m going to share with you are both going to work for the ladies and the lads as well, there is absolutely no difference because we are both sexual creatures, we both want to have fun and we both want to be interesting and interested in.
- The first playful flirting tip is avoiding words.
Most of the times, guys are going to think that to playfully flirt with women, they need to use a different kind of language, different words, different vocabulary and more importantly, be highly romantic!
I don’t agree with this idea, and I will never do!
In order to be playful while flirting, you need to rely less on your words and more on your body language, in other words, the woman, and the man as well if you are a woman, needs to understand that you know the game, you know how to attract the opposite sex and most importantly, you are aware of your body and your sexual needs.
Because, let’s be honest, flirting is about sex, in fact, from my experience, flirting is just creating sexual tension, it’s sexual desire that’s very strong and powerful, so strong that it creates a deep attraction with the person you are interested in.
So, just rely on your body to use the right language for the situation, and here, I’m talking about body language.
To know more about this subject, please, check out my body language posts, they are extremely important to use playful flirting.
- The second playful flirting tip is using your eyes.
When you would like to be playful while flirting, you need to use your eyes as much as possible, and here, I’m not talking about prolonged eye contact, what I’m talking about here is winking and other eye tricks that are very playful and arousing as well.
For example, when I’m with my wife, and I’m “horny”, I will keep looking at her, then, I will play with my eyes in a very childish way, when she starts smiling, I will start making out with her, I know that this is going to sound very childish and somehow immature, but don’t forget that you are reading a post about “playful” flirting, in other words, you need to be a little childish, you need to cause controversy in her mind, she needs to feel strange about you, but deep down, she needs to feel relaxed and completely confident about you, she needs to understand that you can do whatever you like without feeling any hesitation and reluctance.
- The third tip is to use your hands.
Because you are flirting, you need to become a little sensual/sexual, and this involves using your hands, in either touching her or just being playful with her.
Again, I will give you an example from my life: when I’m with my wife, and I’m in the mood, I’m going to spank her, just a little, I’m going to wrestle her, and even to play red hands with her, the trick here is to be playful, to be flirtatious, and most importantly, to always have this idea in mind: we are having fun!
Indeed, these last tips are extremely important when you are playfully flirting with a woman and a man as well, and by using them, you will always have fantastic moments and experiences.
However, in my opinion, the most important tip I can give you when it comes to playfully flirting with men or women is to be completely relaxed about what you are doing, in other words, don’t care a lot about the outcome, if you start counting your moves, thinking about what you should do next, avoiding ridicule, being scared of her reaction, you are going to mess things up and you may even look stupid!
Don’t care a lot, have fun, enjoy yourself, and you will be playfully flirting with her or him very quickly.