In this post, let’s talk about the most important signs of a clingy girlfriend, in other words, a girlfriend who is very needy and unable to support herself emotionally, in other words, she is always relying on you, pressuring you and making you feel uncomfortable around her just in order to support her positively with your good feelings and strong emotions!
When I was young, I wasn’t good with women, and I would always wish to myself that I would find a truly clingy girlfriend someday will love me unconditionally and who will stick to me like the plague, so needy that she would never leave me, and would always shower me with affection, love, sex, and follow me everywhere I go!
And after just some few years, I started achieving success with the ladies and I can say honestly that one of the worst feelings one can experience is having a clingy girlfriend to live with and be with!
That’s why I’m writing this post today, I would like to tell you about the five most important signs of a clingy/needy/emotionally starving girlfriend, in other words, you should avoid such a woman or girl as quickly as possible and as much as possible as well.
- The first sign is seeking your opinion.
And here, I’m not talking about seeking your opinion once in a while, I am married, I have a beautiful wife who ask me daily how she looks, whether she has gained weight or not, and what I think about something she has prepared, there is nothing wrong with this, but the kind of opinion seeking I’m talking about here is the one that makes you feel uncomfortable!
For example, I had a girlfriend some few years ago who would always ask me about whether I loved her or not, whether she was attractive or not, whether she was the one, whether I thought of her as being attractive or having low self-esteem etc.
This would go on at least many hours every single day!
In fact, she would make me feel so uncomfortable that I was trying to avoid her all the time, I even changed my phone numbers two times just to get rid of her after we broke up!
This is the kind of opinion seeking I’m talking about here, the one that makes you feel truly uncomfortable and the one that gives you a terrible feeling in your gut!
- The second sign of a clingy girlfriend is needing your help.
A girlfriend who is always asking you to help her either financially or emotionally, your support in an idea or a thought etc. is a clingy one, she makes you feel uncomfortable deep down because she is all the time trying to get you to help her, you feel deep down that she is unable to support herself and that she will definitely have trouble in life because she cannot rely on herself completely!
Again, if you feel uncomfortable around her, she is probably clingy!
- The third sign is having no opinion!
Whenever you ask her about something and you would like an opinion, she cannot decide herself, she is always hesitant and she is trying to make you do things for her, she relies on you too much and she would like you to just “take care of her” while she is just sitting and not able to support herself by herself.
- The fourth sign is blaming.
When she doesn’t feel satisfied, she will start blaming you for things that you don’t have control over!
For example, when she is sad, she will tell you that you don’t take her out of them, you don’t take good care of her and you neglect her!
Blaming is also a terrible sign that you are dealing with a clingy girlfriend!
- And the fifth sign is relying financially on you.
And this is in my opinion the worst of them all; always trying to get you to buy things for her, take her out to fancy places that she cannot afford to go to on her own etc.
I have no problem paying for a girlfriend, but I don’t want to be used!
That’s why I never trust a girl who needs my financial support, one who relies on me to pay her bills and her credit card debts!
In general, if you feel uncomfortable around your girlfriend, then she is probably very clingy and you need to get rid of this problem as soon as possible.