Today, I will share with you five very important signs that you are in the friend zone, if you find them in your relationship with a girl, then you are in the danger zone for good!
Why is the friend zone dangerous?
If you don’t already know the answer to this question, then, let me enlighten you a little!
When you are in the friend zone, you are not allowed to have intimacy with a girl, you will become her “girl————–friend”, in other words, she will never think of you sexually and you will usually stay in this dark area for the rest of her life!
This alone can give you shivers and so many sleepless nights, however, how do you know you are in the friend zone in the first place?
Use the following signs:
- The first one is sharing
Let’s say that you are with a “girlfriend” who is all the time sharing girl stuff with you, she is telling you about her girl friends, things they do, silly stuff, and that’s it!
In other words, she doesn’t share with you her “whole story”, meaning that she just considers you another friend of hers, she tells you secrets about her friends but she is never going to share with you how she feels about you and how she likes you, you never hear “boyfriend/girlfriend” compliments and she just thinks that you are “the sweetest” person around!
- The second one is lack of intimacy
Here is how I knew I was in the friend zone some eight years ago: I was with this girl for almost a month, I didn’t kiss her, we didn’t have any intimacy, she was very sweet and friendly, but I always had doubts, I told her I loved her, yes, so lame! But she didn’t answer back, she just smiled and said the dreaded “thank you”!
Of all the sudden, I decided that it’s time for our first kiss, I went for a home run and I was tackled violently! She backed away and looked at me angrily, and then she told me “you are my friend, you shouldn’t do this!”
I wanted to cut my testicles at that time!
- The third one is neglect
Yes, neglect my friends, it means that she doesn’t care about you anymore, you make a time to meet and she comes very late, if she comes at all, she doesn’t care whether you are with your friends or with another girl, to her, you are just another “person”!
- The fourth one is “the other guy”
This is by far the most depressing sign you are in the friend zone, out of nowhere, you will start feeling that there is another guy, in fact, she may even start telling you about “the other guy”, another person whom she finds very attractive, and she is not very shy about it, she is going to tell you that she finds him very attractive and that he may even ask her out!
Be careful, this means one thing: you are out!
- The fifth one is “you are out!”
Right now, you are still having doubts whether you are in the friend zone or not, but once you start thinking about this sign, you will definitely know your true place with her!
Usually, when a girl says to you “let’s just be friends” it means that she doesn’t even consider you to be a friend, she doesn’t want you in her life for good, she wants you out!
And this is the sorriest and most depressing sign that you are in the friend zone, she doesn’t care about you anymore, to her, you are just another stranger! She doesn’t call, she doesn’t answer your e-mails, and when you meet her, she will become very distant and cold!
What do you think my friend?
Do you have other signs you would like to talk about? If so, please share them in the comment section below.
Please respect a moment of silence for our brothers in the friend zone!
God bless you!