I received so many questions from different readers about sexuality, dating, and even romance, and one question I received in the last few weeks really bothered me a lot, a guy was having a huge problem with his girlfriend: she flirts with other guys all the time!
Sometimes, even in his presence!
“Help me! My girlfriend flirts with other guys!”
These were the things I could read in his lines, he was desperate, he loved her, and he wanted a solution, and today, I will be 100% honest with you, even though I’m going to scare many into closing this post and watching some cat videos on YouTube!
If you find your girlfriend flirting with other guys, you need to do the things I’m going to advice you in this post.
- The first one is to understand where the problem is!
Your girlfriend doesn’t flirt with other guys because she wants them in her life and have a relationship with them, she flirts with other guys because she is either a manipulative bitch or you are understanding things the wrong way!
Let’s talk about the second part first; you are getting things the wrong way!
Often, some guys are going to be alarmed by their girlfriends talking to other guys, and they will understand that they are flirting, especially when they see them laughing and having fun. Trust me, if your girlfriend is very sociable, kind, and sweet, she is going to appear like she is flirting with other guys, and I want you to do this: keep an eye on her and if you don’t like her doing this, tell her, make her understand your boundaries when it comes to dealing with other guys, tell her that you don’t like her laughing and flirting with other guys! Trust me, she may be wanting to hear these words from you, she is probably testing you and trying to see whether you like her and feel jealous about her or not.
Yes, you need to have boundaries in your relationship with your girlfriend, show her the things you want and the things you don’t, and please, if she doesn’t respect your boundaries and she defies you all the time, dump her! It’s the best thing you can do!
- Let’s talk now about the first thing I mentioned, she is a manipulative bitch!
Most often, this is what you are going to face: a girlfriend who doesn’t respect you, a girlfriend who doesn’t like you to begin with and feels that you are not enough!
And this is what I want you to do if you feel that she does this all the time and you don’t trust her: dump her!
I don’t know why most guys are going to have headaches with a girlfriend, they will feel horrible about her, they may even crying over her, they will tell other guys about their problems and they will even pray God that she stops!
Throughout my life, I have faced many difficulties with many ex-girlfriends, and trust me, one of the most effective tools I have found was dumping the ones I didn’t want, I sometimes would have three girlfriends at the same time, sometimes even five, and I would select the best one for me! You are a man, God has created you to spread your seeds and to have sexual conquests, it’s not okay to stick to one girlfriend who doesn’t love and respect you, it’s not okay to be with someone who is going to manipulate you and make you feel horrible, if you don’t like what she is doing to you, please dump her and move on with your life.