I’m sure that you are not certain about how much eye contact you should use for attraction, I was in your position when I was just starting to learn about women and dating, and let me tell you that it’s very frustrating and it can even make or break a relationship very quickly.
That’s why I’m going to share with you the things you need to focus on in order to know exactly how much eye contact you need in order to attract someone from the opposite sex.
- First, you need to know about the dangers of too much eye contact!
When you make eye contact with a girl for example, this can also apply to guys, and you keep it for a very long time, you will be perceived as one thing: an intimidating psycho!
Avoid doing this, and always respect the five seconds rule.
It’s very important that you always have this in mind, when you are with a girl and you would like to seduce her, never exceed five seconds of eye contact, look her right in the eyes, and keep looking, don’t look away or look down, after five seconds, smile at her, it’s terrific and it will make her feel amazing about you.
One more very important thing: don’t smile and then establish eye contact, it should always be the other way around, establish eye contact first, and then smile, this is what makes or breaks relationships and attraction very fast, I’m sure that you have already seen guys who were very plain looking, but they were able to attract very beautiful girls, this is the trick they use all the time, eye contact, it shows their confidence and also the way they handle themselves and people around them.
- Now, let’s talk about the dangers of having too little eye contact!
When you don’t establish eye contact long enough, less than five seconds, it will tell a lot about you, for example, if you are dealing with girls, they will understand that you are a weak person, you cannot establish eye contact, you are not very powerful or dominant!
This can be very devastating, especially if you are interested in a girl, however, if you are a female, not establishing eye contact or making it very short, will definitely mean many different things, but the most obvious one is you are not interested and interesting!
Not establishing eye contact as a girl/woman can mean that you are not interested in a person, and even if you are, it will drive him away!
That’s why I’m writing this post today, to show you that making eye contact is very important for attraction and if you don’t obey these rules, you will always have troubles attracting a good partner to you, and you may even start asking yourself why you are having no luck at this!
It’s all a question of conveying with your body language that you are attractive, and to do so, you have to use your eye contact, but please, don’t use too much, never exceed seven seconds, and please, don’t forget to always smile after, it’s the most important step you need to take in order to show that your eye contact is meant for something, it’s meant for seduction, otherwise, it’s a declaration of war and conflict!