Approaching a woman at a bar can be very difficult, especially if you don’t know what you are doing and the woman in question is very beautiful and has lots of men gravitating around her and trying to approach her!
This can lead you to a lot of stress and a lot of troubles, especially if you are a very sweet guy who will think that buying her a drink or telling her a compliment is going to do it, it’s not!
Yes, these are some of the most terrible mistakes guys are going to make when approaching women in bars, they honestly think that complimenting them or buying them a drink is going to do the trick and initiate a conversation with them. Well, it doesn’t work this way and it’s only going to drive you to rejection and a terrible success rate!
Let me share with you one of the best ways to approach a woman at a bar, it’s really easy and it’s going to work almost every single time.
I’m not going to say that my technique is going to work every single time, sometimes, some women are not approachable at all unless you have the right “techniques”!
And by techniques, I mean money!
Trust me; most women in bars who may look approachable are simply hookers who are looking for clients, so, be on the lookout, and if you got rejected, don’t blame yourself a lot, and wait some few minutes and try again with another one.
After all, dating is a numbers game, the more you try to approach women, the more success is going to become easier and the more tricks you will understand and learn about how to do it in an easy way.
- The first step to approach a woman at a bar is to be immaculate.
By being immaculate, I simply mean that you need to look great, if you don’t take good care of yourself, start doing it and start taking care of your clothes, smell, oral hygiene, hair, and body language.
Look fantastic, and go on with the second step:
- Establishing eye contact.
Eye contact is probably one of the most neglected body language when it comes to approaching women at bars, guys simply think that sneaking behind women is much more easy than taking the time to establish eye contact and let her feel that you are interested in her!
I don’t want you to do this, I want you to first establish eye contact with her, then, when you are done, go on with the third step:
Yes, you need to be very courageous and stop coming out with excuses and pretexts that prevent you from approaching women, just go ahead and approach her, don’t wait more than one second to decide, the more you wait, the more you are going to have troubles and the more your mind is going to come up with excuses and pretexts to avoid initiating contact with her.
- Now, let’s talk about the things you can tell her:
One of the easiest things you can approach a woman at the bar with is a remark, and this is the one I really enjoy using all the time:
“I can’t believe you didn’t approach me, I gave you all the right signals, I even smiled at you, so, here I am”
This quote is simply fantastic, whenever you approach a woman at a bar and you use it, they will either smile or laugh, they cannot stop but feel good about you.
These are the techniques I use myself to approach women at bars, they work, just try them and trust me, success will come very easily to you.