I know that the subject of approaching a woman at work can be very intimidating and somehow scary to most guys, but if you use the techniques I’m going to share with you in this post, it’s going to be very easy for you, most importantly, you will be liked by women all around you and the wonderful thing is that they will never think that you are a pervert or someone whom they should stay away from!
The first thing you need to understand is that if you are in a position of vulnerability, you need to stay away from these techniques as much as possible.
- What do I mean by a position of vulnerability?
Simply that if you have difficulties at work, you don’t feel comfortable, and that are many cases of sexual harassment in the air at the moment you want to approach a colleague, then, it’s not suitable for you to use the following techniques, they are not against the low, after all, you are just trying to get a date and get to know a woman at work more, but, if the woman is in a vulnerable position from you, for example, you are her boss, then, she may turn against you and she may even abuse your vulnerability by suing you!
So, be careful, and only use these tips and advice at your own risk.
- The first step to approach a woman at work is to smell fantastic.
One of the most neglected areas of attraction guys will always never think of is the way they smell, for example, they will only put great perfume or cologne only when they are going to meet women, in fact, one of the worst things you can do is this, you should always take good care of yourself no matter what is going to happen because you like yourself and because you enjoy who you really are.
If you only use a great cologne when you are meeting women, you are just lying to yourself, and this is probably the worst thing you can do to your self-esteem and self-worth!
So, always put on some a great cologne, especially if you have lots of attractive women working with you.
This way, they will always keep talking about you and the way you always smell nice and how great you are.
- The second step is to take good care of your clothes.
Women by default are always attracted to guys who wear very nice things, in fact, guys who take good care of themselves and wear fantastic things all the time, for them, it’s a sign that you are in a great situation in life and you are comfortable being who you really are.
- The third step is to avoid making terrible mistakes.
And here, I’m talking about coming out too bluntly, in other words, telling a woman at work that you like her and that you would like to go out with her!
It is the worst thing you can do because you will put yourself in a position of vulnerability and she may reject you or even worse, she may call the cops on you and sue you!
Better be careful and use the following technique:
- Start very slowly and only ask for friendship favors.
Trust me, I’ve dated so many women at work, in fact, I even dated my boss some few years ago, before getting married to my wife.
It’s quite easy in fact, because women are all the time looking for a great guy, someone who they are going to have a fantastic relationship with and someone who is going to make them laugh and have a great time, an entertainer.
But please, be careful, if your intentions are to have a quick relationship or to even sleep with her and leave her, then, approaching a woman at work can be very bad for your career and can even result in lots of troubles.
Better think long term if you are trying to approach women in your office or workplace.
So, think of something that she is really good at, say for example that she knows how to use a computer program, ask her for help, women are very kind and helpful by nature, she will help you, then, tease her a little and make her laugh, then, move along and don’t disturb her for some few days, even some few weeks, act as if it was “innocent”.
After that, enjoy talking to her again, have some good laughs with her and move along, don’t act in a needy way, don’t try to get favors too much from her, instead, just act naturally around her.
Afterwards, tell her that you would like to buy some clothes or something and you need a female opinion, ask her when she is available, it’s your best strategy to approach her and to get a date with her without telling her that it is a date.
And this is how you can approach women at work.