Approaching a woman you like may seem like a very difficult task, but it should not be!
Let me explain to you in this post my step-by-step guide in order to approach a woman you feel good about, a woman you are scared to lose because of mistakes you may do or make when approaching her!
Indeed, approaching a woman you like is a very difficult task, especially if you don’t know what you are doing because you want her to be a part of your life, so, you don’t want to lose her.
- The first step to achieve this this is to always take good care of yourself.
Whenever you read posts in this website is related to approaching women, you will find this advice: take good care of yourself!
It’s because women are very sensitive beings, they like guys who take good care of themselves first, and this means that they will take good care of them as well when they are together!
In other words, by taking good care of yourself and looking amazing, smelling good and feeling good in your own skin, a woman is certain that you will also make her feel good about herself when you are with her.
So, take good care of yourself, wear amazing clothes, and most importantly, smells very nice.
- The second step is to have the right mindset.
And here, I’m talking about the acts of approaching itself!
Trust me; this advice is going to change your life forever: don’t approach her!
By this, I don’t mean that you have to leave her alone and never talk to her, what I’m talking about here is avoid approaching her in a needy way, don’t expect an outcome, don’t try to approach her in order to invite her for a date or to try to “seduce” her!
It won’t work, and if you put too much stress and pressure on it, she will run away from you very quickly.
Instead, you need to change your mindset forever about approaching women, especially the ones you like. Instead, try to initiate conversations with them, try to have fun with them, try to make them your friends at first, try to let them understand that you are judging them and that you are thinking about including them your friends’ circle, they need to understand that you are a busy person and that you have a good life they want to be a part of.
- And this is probably the most important step: have a fantastic life.
When you have a great life, women are going to want to be included in it, and a great life doesn’t need to be fancy, it doesn’t mean going to clubs and enjoying the best drinks and the fanciest things! Having a great life simply means minding your own business, having good friends, enjoying your job, and feeling satisfaction being yourself.
Again, this can be very difficult to achieve, that’s why you need to start with your self-esteem first, start by improving the way you feel about yourself and the way you act around people, it’s the most important step in order to approach the woman you really like.
- Let’s talk now about the how to.
Again, don’t approach her to get her approval of you, don’t approach her to get a date from her, approach her to make her your friend, and just go to her and ask her a question about things she is wearing, a certain friend of yours, something that’s unrelated to her, trust me, this way, you are going to put away the pressure from her and most importantly from you!
Once she starts talking to you and answering your question, say thanks and let her be, with time, she is going to feel good about you and she may even start missing you because you have your life together and you take good care of yourself, which is, as I mentioned before, one of the most important steps to approach a woman you like, she will definitely start wondering where you have been and what you are up to, and then, just tell her that you like her and that you would like to take her out sometimes, it’s this easy.