Approaching and flirting with women should be your number one priority when you try to have fun with them and improve your dating life, after all, if most guys knew how to approach and flirt with women, they would never ask questions about dating and relationship, everything will just work!
Unfortunately, most guys don’t know how to flirt and approach women; they just think that there is something magical about it! Well, I’ve been in the dating industry for the last ten years and I know that there is nothing magical about approaching and flirting with women, what there is are some simple rules and tips you need to use and ones you need to avoid as much as possible.
- Let’s first start talking about how to approach women.
In order for you to have success approaching women, you have to always have this in your mind:
Most approaches are going to fail!
Sometimes, when you approach a woman, even if you are the most handsome guy in the world, like Brad Pitt for example, most of the time, you will definitely end up rejected!
Most women are quite busy, when you want to approach them, you have to arm yourself with patient because only some few approaches are going to work with you and are going to end up with success, trust me, better know it now than being disappointed later on!
- The next idea you need to understand is that if you don’t look great, no need to approach women.
This may seem terrible and unfair, but it’s the truth, women are very superficial, when you approach them, they will start checking you out, meaning that if you look horrible, you don’t dress very well and use your body language correctly, they are not going to be very interested in you, so, wear your best clothes and always have a nice smell.
- Now, let’s talk about the best way to approach a woman:
Look her right in the eyes, and go!
Don’t wait, waiting is the number one enemy of approaching women, I’ve lost so many fantastic opportunities to approach amazingly beautiful women just because I’ve waited one second too long! Don’t wait, always go approach her, and remember, you will be rejected from time to time, but you will also succeed other times, and this rate is going to increase with time, meaning that you are going to have more success with the ladies once you get yourself approaching many.
- Now, let’s talk about what you need to say to her when you approach her:
Just relax, look her right in the eyes, and ask her for directions or for a restaurant nearby, be nice, and create an opportunity for her to keep talking to you, this way, she will not be scared by you because, let’s be honest, when you approach her and ask her for her phone number immediately, she is going to get scared and she may even run away from you or be completely frightened!
- Let’s talk now about how to flirt with women.
What is flirting?
Flirting is simply creating sexual tension with a woman, when she is smiling, laughing, and having fun, she is flirting, but please, don’t rely on jokes and pick up lines to flirt with the ladies, it will never work.
To have success approaching and flirting with women, always have fun with them, ask them stupid questions, I even play stupid games with them like red hand, they love it and they can’t get enough.
The next thing you need to understand about flirting is that it’s an eye contact game.
Meaning that you need to look her right in the eyes and have fun with her, she will like it a lot.