Would you like to attract women without even trying? Effortlessly? Then, you need to start following these easy steps I’m going to present to you in this post, they are very efficient and they will make you not only very attractive, but will also make women gravitate around you and always look to impress you and make you feel great about them.
- The first step is to take good care of your psyche!
What I’m saying here is going to surprise most of you, but most guys have internal conflicts, internal problems and negative self-talk going on, in other words, they hate themselves!
Don’t be surprised at this, most guys are not satisfied with who they are right now, they think that they should be someone else, they think that they are not that attractive and no one is going to care about them, that’s why they need to use “tricks” in order to attract the ladies, they don’t have complete confidence in their abilities and themselves!
I used to have this mentality in the past and I used to think badly about myself, I used to see myself as inadequate and useless, I used to think of myself as bad and not enough!
And for a very long time, I was able to get phone numbers, approach beautiful women and even get to third base with them, but they would always just leave me for someone who most of the time was less physically and financially attractive than me!
If you would like to attract women without trying, you need to take good care of your psyche, you need to love yourself from the inside and most importantly, you need to feel good about who you are right now.
I have to be completely honest with you, if you don’t feel great about who you are right now, you need to fix yourself and quick.
And the first thing to do is to read amazing books on this subject, the first one is called The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle, this book alone will change your life for the better.
It will improve your inner dialogue and improve the way you see yourself.
- The second step to attract women without trying is to learn to talk positively to yourself.
I know that it resembles the previous step, but this is completely different! What I’m talking about here is related to positive self-talk, most importantly, it’s related to your self-esteem.
If you don’t have fun with yourself, if you don’t feel comfortable being with yourself alone, then, there are huge improvements to be made in order to attract women effortlessly.
And here, I’m not going to lie to you, just read amazing books like Nathaniel Brandon’s “The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem”.
This book is amazing and will improve your self-esteem tremendously, trust me, women have always complimented me out of nowhere, they would come to me and tell me that they feel something strange about me which they cannot understand and it’s very attractive and powerful.
- The third step is to take good care of your outer looks.
Start wearing amazing clothes, take a female friend or sister out with you, get her to buy you clothes that are attractive and very trendy, choose nice colognes and wear them all the time, you have to be physically attractive in order to make women notice you and in order to make women follow you with their eyes and even start conversations with you.
- The fourth step is to have something strange about you!
Women are not going to approach you out of nowhere because of no reason, you have to give them something to initiate a conversation with you, and in my case, I use cowboy boots! I have a fantastic pair at home, they are very attractive and unique in style as well, I bought them from Amsterdam some five years ago and whenever I would like to make a great impression on women, I would wear them.
Now, I’m married and I no longer use them!
Anyway, when I was single, whenever I went out with friends, I would have women out of nowhere approach me and ask me about them, this will give me amazing opportunities to start conversations with them and get them to give me their phone numbers almost within two minutes of meeting them.
And this is how you can attract women effortlessly and without even trying!