Sometimes, things may not go as you wish, sometimes, your girlfriend may be upsetting you all the time, she may not be satisfying you and you have to break up with her, however, most often, the breakup can turn into something nasty very quickly and you may even regret it later on and find yourself feeling guilty about what you did!
That’s why I would like to share with you a very easy way to break up with your girlfriend, it’s not very hurtful for you, yet, it can be painful for her, sorry, you can do nothing about this part, the only way for you to “humanely” break up with her is to use this technique, don’t worry, I will also share with you some very easy breakup techniques as well later on.
- My favorite way to break up with a girlfriend is the following:
First of all, I would lower my communication level with her as much as possible, instead of calling her every single day many times and talking to her for a very long time, I will lower my communication levels, I won’t text her often, in fact, I would spend some few days without calling her altogether, then, I would stop sending her text messages or even liking her posts on Facebook or other social media, then, I arrange a meeting with her, I wear dark clothes, not very exciting ones, and I look sad in my facial expressions, I invite her to some coffee, we have some few conversations, and I tell her that being with her has been very nice and exciting at first, but now, I don’t feel myself and I think it’s time to move on!
Is this simple, just use this scenario and she will understand everything you are going through, make it look like you are devastated as well, you don’t like what is going on in the relationship and it’s time to move on for both of you, for improving both of your life and hers as well, and it’s for the better.
Then, don’t be a SOB, in other words, don’t leave immediately, stay with her a little, listen to her if she wants to speak up, don’t make the breakup nasty, you may regret it later on and start thinking about her and maybe even start trying to get her back into your life, the more smooth the breakup will be for her, the better for you on the long run.
- The second way to break up with your girlfriend is to use their own poison!
Girls are very powerful when it comes to communication, sometimes, they will use very efficient tactics with honest guys like ourselves, they will for example tell you that they want you as a friend in order to break up with you later on, this can be very devastating to a guy, so, why not use it with a girl as well!?
If you don’t like her anymore and you would like to break up with her, just tell her that you like her as a friend and someday she will find a person who will love her and respect her the most, but you think of her as your best friend and you cannot have a relationship with her!
Trust me; this will also serve you well for breaking up with your girlfriend.
- The next way is to withdraw slowly.
By withdrawing slowly, I mean that you should not surprise her with your decision, cut down on your communication little by little and soon, start withdrawing emotionally from her life, start answering her text messages very slowly and don’t meet her a lot, until she is fed up with you and she gives up on her own, although this may take a long time, it’s very effective and it will smooth the transition and make it very healthy for you.
But in all cases, you should end the relationship yourself, you should tell her that you are going to move on and it’s time for her to do the same.