Would you like to learn how to flirt in college?
Well, I’m going to help you in this post, I’m going to share with you my terrible college experience to show you an example of how not to flirt in college while also giving you some of the most important lessons I’ve learned about this and also how to make girls, and guys, enjoy your presence and think that you are a fantastic person.
First of all, let’s talk about me for a little, I am a man, and in my posts, you are going to find that I use examples about women all the time, after all, I am a heterosexual man, I cannot use examples about guys, but, please understand that these techniques and advice I’m going to share with you will both work for guys and for girls as well.
Let’s now talk about how to flirt in college.
- The first step is to have great friends.
If you would like to flirt in college, you need to always have a plan B!
From my experience, when I was in college/university, that’s what we call it in France, I always had terrible experiences with the ladies, it’s because I was too focused on them, I was all the time trying to get their attention and their goodwill, I was trying to make them think that I was a fantastic guy, well, this made me look like a dork!
And that’s why I want you to have great friends, those friends you are going to feel relaxed about, those friends that you are going to come back to when things go wrong.
They are not very important when it comes to flirting in college, but they will help you surmount your problems very quickly.
In other words, they will provide you with a secure base where you will come back when you feel down and terrible about yourself, someone you will talk to in order to feel good again.
Trust me, it’s extremely important, and to do this, I highly recommend that you read books on how to be good with people, the best one I’ve read is How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie, get it now and start reading it, it will change your life forever.
- The second step is to be dorky!
Again, I may sound like I’m contradicting myself here, but this is an amazing technique that will work for you as well. When you are with girls, have fun, enjoy yourself, tell them dirty jokes, and most importantly, enjoy yourself, it’s one of the best advice I can give you in order to have a fun time in college and to flirt amazingly well with girls.
What you need to understand about flirting is that it involves sexual tension, and if you use your logical brain, and avoid your emotional one, in other words, avoid fun, you will make things very bad for you because our logical brain isn’t the best when it comes to creating fun and sexual tension, it only knows how to drive a car and how to use a calculator, so to speak of course!
So, rely on your emotional brain but always have fun with girls, it’s the best natural asset you have in order to flirt with them and to have fun with them.
- The third step to flirting is to have lots of numbers.
Dating is a numbers game, when you only focus on one particular girl, you can hit and miss, but most of the time, you will miss! But if you have lots of girls in mind, lots of numbers to call and lots of things to do in the evening, you will always have a relaxed attitude, most importantly, girls are going to feel great about you and they are going to have lots of fun with you because you are ready to leave all the time, you don’t care a lot about the way they see you or the way they behave with you, you are on your course and they like it.
Yes, these are definitely the best advice I can give you on how to flirt in college, if you have a question, don’t hesitate to post it in the section below, I will try to help you as much as possible.