If you would like to have a playful date with a woman or a man, then you need to read this post immediately, in it, I’m going to share with you the most important steps you need to take in order to not only have a full of fun date, but to also have an amazing one as well, a very positive one that’s going to give you amazing chances with him or her and result in a relationship that will probably last your entire lifetime.
Before we start, you need to understand that I am a man, that’s why I’m going to use “she” in my conversation with you, but please, be aware that these steps are going to work for both men and women, so, if you are a woman going on a date with a man, don’t hesitate to use them, they will work for you as well.
- The first step you need to take in order to have playful date is to stop caring!
I was once talking to a friend of mine about dating, he didn’t understand a lot about women and romance and he wanted to learn some few tricks from me, I told him at the beginning of our conversation that in order for him to learn some valuable lessons, he needed to have an open mind, and most importantly, he needed to accept everything I’m going to share with him and try it for himself before judging!
I’m sure you agree with this!
However, when I started giving him some of the tips you are going to find in this post, he immediately started defending his believes and arguing with me about social norms and human psychology!
I don’t want you to do this, I want you to accept everything in this post first, and then, try them and see for yourself, that’s the only way you are going to learn.
So, the first idea I need to share with you in order to have playful date with a woman or a man is to stop caring.
For example, if you are having fun and you are on the same time thinking about other people around you, what they are thinking and saying about you, etc. You are soon going to find yourself hesitant and unable to think clearly, and this will cause you some very bad self-esteem and self-confidence troubles.
So, just have fun, relax, and enjoy yourself, and please, if your playful date is not about laughter and fun, don’t be part of it!
- The second step is to always choose a very “bizarre” place.
If you would like to have a playful date with a woman in a casual restaurant, then, you are making a huge mistake because you have set from the beginning the tone of the date as being casual and normal/serious, however, if you take her to an ethnic restaurant where they serve frogs and warms for example, it will not only be a playful date, but a very crazy one.
That’s why, when I was single and still dating women, I am now married, I always took women on playful dates, in fact, crazy ones, like the amusement park, the market, toy store, IKEA, and even antique shops.
These places are amazing and they will set the tone of your dates from the start as being playful.
- The third step is to let the other person do most of the work.
And here, I mean that you should stop trying to convince him or her that you are having a playful date, have fun, relax, do things you really love and she will have fun as well.
For example, when I took women to IKEA, I would go to the mattress section and I would lay on one, then, I would look the woman right in the eyes, while making of pouring sound, like a cat, and then I would invite her in a Spanish and romantic accent to join me in my “Temple of desire”!
Trust me, most women go crazy for this, it’s not only very playful, but it’s also very fun as well.
- The fourth step is to never forget the essentials.
And this is one of the most important ideas you need to take from this post, it’s the fact that the dates must always have these essential elements: a drink, food, a good conversation, lots of listening, and a kiss!
By drink, I don’t mean alcohol, I mean that you should enjoy a beverage together, you should share with her something you really like, you should invite her to try things you enjoy, the same goes with food as well.
Have a good conversation as well that contains lots of listening and caring, and when you are done, always go for a kiss, never think that she is going to get upset or she won’t like it etc. I don’t care, whether it’s your first or twelfth date, you should try to kiss her, it’s a must, if you don’t do it, you will have wasted a valuable opportunity.