How to make a woman love you? This is what we are going to deal with in this post, and although I know that most websites on dating are going to have such posts and articles, I think that they are, for the most part, very mediocre!
Trust me, I’ve read many articles on this subject, and I know from experience that most websites are going to give you fluff advice, in other words, advise that are not going to be extremely effective, in fact, they will do you more harm than good!
So, how to make a woman fall in love with you?
Well, you need to know a lot about the psychology of love and how women think about men, and fortunately for you, this is what I’m going to show you in this post.
- The first step to make a woman fall in love with you is to be a man.
Although this advice is going to sound very “easy” and somehow “fluff”, it’s very important.
What do I mean by a man?
A man is someone who takes responsibility, someone who is able to take risks, someone who knows how to handle himself, someone who isn’t taken by surprise and who is reliable, if you have all these traits, then, making a woman fall in love with you is going to be very easy, you just need to use the coming tips.
However, what if you don’t have all these traits?
Well, you acquire them!
It’s a must, and there isn’t a way out of this, you have to make yourself a true man in order to make women like you and most importantly, in order to make women so comfortable and so at ease and secure whenever they are with you that they are automatically drawn to you and easily fall in love with you.
How do you acquire these traits?
Well, you need to do a lot of reading and a lot of going out, and I highly recommend that you read the following two books:
How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie, and The Seven Habits Of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey.
These two books are the most important in order to grow as a person and to become highly sociable and very attractive as well, they will also help you in your professional life tremendously.
- Next, you need to start going out every single day. And here, I really mean it!
I kid you not, you need to go out every single day, you need to meet new people, you need to gain new social experiences, you need to become people smart!
- The second tip to make a woman fall in love with you is to be a perfect listener.
And here, I’m not asking you to become a “good” listener, what I’m saying here is that you need to become a perfect listener, one who understands people, one who makes people feel comfortable, and most importantly, one who is ready to give a helping “ear” whenever someone needs to tell you about an issue or just to be friendly to you.
If you snap at people and if you don’t have the right patience to listen to them, then, you are never going to make a woman fall in love with you, she may like you, but she will always have doubts about you.
- The third advice I need to give you is to be patient.
If you would like to make a particular woman fall in love with you, then you are making a huge mistake, because focusing on only one woman is going to ruin her feelings for you, you will spend all your energy thinking about her and trying to influence her, even worse, she is going to perceive you as a needy person, which is incredibly dangerous for your emotions and your well-being as well.
What I advice you to do is to have “many eggs” in your basket, start meeting a lot of women, and if you have a particular woman in mind, ignore her for now, start going out and start meeting other women, most importantly, start applying the advice I’ve showed you some few lines ago.