One of the most important things a guy can do to his girlfriend is making her feel special, he will not only have her love and devotion, but he will also make her extremely happy and satisfied about him, meaning that she won’t look elsewhere!
One of the most important reasons why girls cheat is because they feel neglected, and in this post, I’m going to tell you what these things are and in fact, I’m going to reveal to you the opposite, things you should do in order to make your girlfriend feel special.
- The first one is to not let yourself go!
Yesterday, I was checking my Facebook account when I saw a very funny picture, in it was a groom kissing the bride and he was saying to himself: “now I can drink beer and get fat”!
It was very funny but very true as well, I still remember when I was single and looking, whenever I would meet a girl and start going out with her, at first, she would take very good care of herself, go to the gym, look fantastic and watch out for whatever she was putting in her mouth, food that is!
But after just some few months of being together, she would let herself go and soon, she would burp and even pass gas when I was with her!
Even worse, she would completely let herself go, and by this, I mean her belly and her whole body! She would gain weight and be careless about her looks!
As a guy, this makes me feel worthless. How come you took very good care of yourself when you were single and now that I’m with you, you let yourself look like complete trash!?
Don’t do this to your girlfriend, please, it makes her feel worthless!
Instead, always keep getting better, take good care of yourself, follow a good diet, don’t let yourself look horrible and please, always wear nice things when she is with you, she will like you even more and will feel not only special but loved and cared for as well.
- The second way to make your girlfriend feel special is to tease her.
I once read a very interesting book about childcare, in this book, I’ve found a statistic about how psychopaths are created in neglectful families, the mother or the father won’t play with his kids, won’t care, won’t listen and even worse, won’t do stupid and childish stuff with his kids!
With my kids, I make sure that every day, I make a complete fool of myself, I kiss their bellies, I bite them gently, I am a horse and they ride me, I make stupid noises with my armpits etc. We have a lot of fun!
And this is what I want you to do with your girlfriend as well, I want you to completely relax with her, make her feel special by playing with her and by being nice to her, this is how she will know that you care and love her.
- And the third and probably most important thing to make your girlfriend feel special is to listen to her with your heart.
You need to understand that your girlfriend is not your “dude” and “buddy”, in other words, she doesn’t want your logical thinking brain when she is talking with you!
With your girlfriend, use your emotions and empathize with her, which is the best way to communicate with her.
Try to go a step further, try to use your hearth whenever she is talking to you, listen to her like you mean it, accept her into your life and let her share her world vision with you, even if it’s about soap operas or makeup, just let her talk and let her come to you, that’s how she is going to know how loved and special she is to you.