In this post, I’m going to reveal to you how to read flirty body language almost with no mistakes and without problems very easily, in fact, whenever you notice such body language signals, they will mean one thing: flirting!
Flirting is the most important form of communication when you are dating and attracted to someone, and it has to be perfect, because if it’s not, it will cause a lot of miscommunication and also a lot of troubles from your part, you will have so many issues interpreting what is going on in the interaction that you will feel lost and this will hinder your abilities to make a fantastic impression on the other person!
I don’t want this happening to you, that’s why I’m going to share with you how to read flirty body language very easily.
- The first thing you need to pay close attention to is the size of the eyes.
First of all, I am a guy, so, I’m going to use my “he” voice, and trust me, these flirty body language signals will work with both men and women, just learn about the more here.
Whenever someone is flirting with you, his eyes are going to focus on you much more, in fact, something very strange is going to happen: pupil dilatation, in other words, his eyes are going to get bigger while also staying focused on you as much as possible.
This is probably one of the most important flirty body language you need to be always on the lookout for, whenever someone is flirting with you, this will happen automatically.
- The second flirty body language you need to be on the lookout for is related to the hands.
Whenever someone is flirting with you, he or she is going to use his hands all the time, in fact, excessively, it means that the other person is trying to explain things, trying to make you understand his points of view and most importantly, he or she is trying to keep you on the conversation, meaning that there is interest and there is also attraction.
There is no difference between flirting and attraction, when you are attracted you flirt, and when you are flirting, it means that you are attracted, sorry for the confusion, but this is absolutely true.
So, the same signals that are going to work to interpret body language of attraction are also going to work at interpreting flirty body language.
- The third one is related to the position of the body, mainly, the torso and feet.
Whenever the torso and feet are pointed in your direction, there is attraction going on, and as mentioned before, attraction means flirting, and whenever someone is being flirting with you, he or she is going to point his body towards you, after all, you cannot have flirting without focusing on the person you like.
In other words, you cannot flirt with someone without looking at him or her!
- Let’s talk now about the fourth thing you need to pay close attention to when reading flirty body language: acts of kindness.
Whenever someone is flirting with you, there will be many acts of kindness, and by these, I mean paying attention to you, trying to understand your viewpoints, and even telling you a little joke or being nice to you, sometimes, it can be very obvious!
And this is what I mean by acts of kindness, it means that there is interest towards you and words cannot explain this, that’s why the other person is going to be extremely kind to you, he or she is going to try for example to get you to talk about an issue in more details, share his or her viewpoints with you honestly and even make you laugh.