I keep receiving so many e-mails and comments from my readers asking me about different issues, and most recently, some few guys kept asking me about self-centered women!
And this is what I’m going to talk about today: how to recognize one, in other words, the traits and characteristics of a self-centered woman.
And here, I’m not talking about narcissism, I’ve dealt with this subject more in-depth in previous posts, but for today, I’m only talking about self-centered behavior, in other words, egoistic behaviors in women!
Trust me, narcissism can be much more devastating to a man than having a self-centered women in his life, so, you should understand the difference between the two.
- The first trait of a self-centered woman is putting the focus on herself.
I’m sure that this characteristic can be very confusing to most of you, but it’s very important that you understand it in-depth and most importantly, that you know how to recognize it in women.
What I mean by putting focus on herself is that she is always trying to get people to approve of her, to get them to care about her, and sometimes, with a self-centered woman, you will notice that she likes to talk about herself all the time.
You kind of feel it when you are around self-centered women, they are always trying to bring every good thing and every subject to themselves, how they feel about things, and what people should do in order to please them, in other words, you don’t feel comfortable around them and you are always feeling a kind of emotional disgust within!
In my opinion, this is the most important trait you need to be careful about when it comes to a self-centered woman, in other words: whether you are feeling horrible internally about her or not!
If you are not, then, you are simply dealing with a woman who is concerned about herself, but not very egoistic, say it differently: she’s not going to bring you down and cause you troubles.
And I’m sure you will also notice a very important thing when it comes to self-centered women:
They want your money!
Yes, it may seem strange, but most self-centered women want you to pay for them, they want you to “treat” them, they are all the time whining about things they want and how good it will make them feel to have something, and the worst thing is that if you don’t pay, she can find another guy who will!
This is also very important, she wants to put all the focus on herself, make other people please her; get her what she can’t get for herself.
Believe me when I tell you this: these are some of the worst women you can go out with, they will suffocate you emotionally and even financially, and if you are fool enough to follow them, they will make your life miserable!
My advice is to run away from self-centered women as much as possible and pray God that you will never meet one.
Trust me, it’s not pretty being with such women!
- The second characteristic of a self-centered woman is a need to control everything.
Self-centered women are always looking to control their environment in order to please them and satisfy them, and whenever they find things not suiting them, they will start throwing tantrums at everyone and becoming angry with everything!
I’ve dealt with so many self-centered women in my life that I know that this is one of their most notorious characteristics, you see them always trying to change your mind, trying to influence you and even worse, trying to contradict fundamental beliefs you have about certain things, to them, nobody can argue with their “principles” because they “are always right”, you “should” never correct her because she knows everything and everything she says and tells you is the ultimate truth!
This is what I’m talking about when I’m saying that they would like to control everything, even your ideas and beliefs.
- And the third characteristic is blame!
Whenever things are not going as she wishes and especially when she does something wrong, she will never put the blame on her, it’s not her responsibility and someone else must be the real reason and cause!
For example, with a previous girlfriend who was a very self-centered woman, let’s say for example that she insisted on going to a certain restaurant, when we arrive there and the food is lousy, she will blame me and tell me that we arrived very late or I picked the wrong day or even that I’m jinxed!
For example, when she had a fight with her mother, even when things happened in front of me and I knew she did wrong, she would never acknowledge her mistakes and will always argue that people provoked her and got her to act in a certain manipulative way!
Blaming is a very dangerous tool used by self-centered women.