Let’s discuss women’s body language for a second!
I know that this subject is going to sound very easy to most of you; after all, some guys are going to tell you that if a woman smiles at you and touches her hair, then she is attracted!
But please, let’s be serious for a moment, we all know that women are extremely great communicators, they know how to use their body language and most importantly, how to use words to their advantage, and that’s why most guys are going to find it very difficult to understand women’s body language, they simply cannot grasp what they are trying to tell them, even worse, they do not understand whether they like them or not.
And that’s why I’m going to discuss this very important subject today: how to understand women’s body language, not only that, but also how to understand whether they like you or not, which is the most important reason why a guy may be looking at understanding women’s body language and signals.
- The first thing you need to understand about women’s body language is that it’s very subtle.
Most guys are going to find it very difficult to understand this very important language not because they don’t know the meaning of women’s gestures, but because they don’t see them in the first place!
Unfortunately, I cannot help you when it comes to this, it’s up to you, the only thing I can do is to advise you on being always on the lookout for things and gestures women do when they are with you, most importantly, always look at women’s eyes, where they are directing them, because it’s going to reveal to you a lot about their intentions, and whether they use their body language with you to show interest or something else.
In general, whenever you see a woman who is a little hesitant with her words, she is probably using her body language to communicate her emotions and interests, this is the most obvious sign I can give to you, and unfortunately, if you cannot spot this in women, you are going to find yourself in deep troubles when communicating with them.
- Let’s discuss now some elementary body language signals women are going to use:
Of course, this whole post is related to her interest, in other words, women’s body language signals with which they show interest, if you see a woman acting this way with you, then she is interested in you.
- The first body language that shows interest is related to her eyes.
Whenever you see a woman who is looking at you for an extended period of time, say, more than fifteen seconds, then, she is interested in you, and please, stop reading body language guides in which you are going to find something like: “when she scratches her hair, it means she likes you!”
Well, this is completely BS, it doesn’t work, and it will just make her look awkward in your eyes!
In general, when a woman is highly interested in you, she is going to keep looking at you, she is going to want to know more about you, in fact, that’s her inner body talking, it’s her instinctive mind asking her to get more information about you in order to understand you more and to see whether you are good for her on the long term or not.
Trust me, whenever you are with a woman, she is thinking long-term, it has nothing to do with you, it has everything to do with her.
- The second women’s body language you should pay close attention to is their hands.
If you find that a woman is touchy and highly physical with you, meaning that she explains things with her hands, she tries to grasp your arms in order to focus on a point or she plays with things that belong to you, then, she is highly interested in you, and you should go on with your efforts, because you are doing great.
- And the third most important body language of women is smiling.
Trust me, these are the three most important body language areas you need to focus on, if people tell you otherwise, they don’t know what they are saying or doing!
What about smiling?!
It’s quite clear, when a woman smiles at you for a very long time, and you know that it’s a genuine smile, in other words, she smiles with her eyes, meaning that her pupils are dilated more, she likes what she is seeing, and if she doesn’t smile, she is definitely not in the mood or she feels no emotional ties and no emotional interests to you.
Again, these are the most important body language features of women you need to focus on all the time.