Let’s discuss kissing your girlfriend for a moment here, I know that a lot of you, especially the ones who are new to dating, feel very hesitant about this subject, in fact, most of you may think that kissing her is probably the hardest thing you will ever do in life!
Trust me, I’ve been there, and I know what I’m talking about, and let me tell you that kissing your girlfriend should not be difficult at all, because I’m going to share with you how to do it very easily.
I’m writing this post today because I’ve received an e-mail from a guy who told me that he wanted to kiss his girlfriend, but he just can’t!
Well, if you are experiencing the same thing, this post is especially designed for you.
How do you kiss your girlfriend?
Well, there aren’t many techniques to do it, only the following are going to work, especially if you are just a beginner:
- The first step is to establish a good rapport with her.
By rapport, I mean that she feels comfortable around you, she wants to hang out with you, and she feels fine when you are nearby.
And you do this by letting her talk about herself, by listening to her and being kind to her.
This is very important for you because you should never attempt to kiss your girlfriend if she is not feeling comfortable around you, otherwise, you will find yourself in some deep troubles with her!
When you have established a good rapport with her, and she feels comfortable around you and she likes spending time with you, in fact, you talk a lot on the phone together and she texts you a lot, then, you can move on to the next step:
- Establishing the right kissing body language with her.
This is one of the most important things you need to do before kissing your girlfriend,: establishing the right body language with her.
Whenever you are with her, look her right in the eyes, always smile while doing this so as you don’t look like a pervert or a criminal!
You should also try to hold her hands and the most important thing you need to do is to be teasing and playful with her all the time.
Which are the most important things you need to do.
It’s because when you are teasing and being playful with your girlfriend, she understands that you want her sexually, she understands that you have lots of confidence and lots of self-esteem, which is very important to have before kissing her.
- Now, let’s talk about kissing her.
Well, it’s very easy, when you are looking her right in the eyes, smile and caress her cheek, then, hold her by the hand and approach her to you a little, kiss her on the lips for a minimum of three seconds, five is desirable and ten is amazing!
Your girlfriend should be in heaven by now, she will feel amazing about you and one word of advice, don’t try to kiss her after this, you should leave her right now for her desires and her emotions to settle down, next time you meet her, you can kiss her as much as you want, but for now, remember, it’s her first kiss with you and she needs to calm down a little, she needs to settle things in her mind about you and she needs to establish herself with you.