Would you like to flirt at work, but deep down you are afraid because you may be perceived as shallow, troublemaker, and even worse: you will face sexual harassment accusations?!
Well, I’ve got the right solution for you, it’s called innocent flirting at work, and it simply consists of flirting while also looking very innocent, Duhh! And people around you will never find out, which is just too great for your reputation.
- First, let’s talk about the first step: not getting caught!
Well, the risks are terrible, especially if the other person doesn’t want to flirt!
First, let’s make things easy for me, I will use she throughout this whole post, it’s very tiring to always write he/she, him/her etc.
So, when you would like to flirt with women at work, you need to be very careful because some of them may be gold-diggers, they won’t understand that you simply want to have fun and very serious about your desires for her!
Sometimes, we have to acknowledge that we are human beings, sexual beings, we need to feel loved and desired and desire others as well, and here, I’m not talking about being manipulative and “bad”, what I’m talking about is wanting to have fun with a woman you really like and flirting with her, making her feel desired, being interesting as a person, and flirting to make her feel good about herself.
However, you need to be very careful, if you feel that your office, or where you work is very aggressive when it comes to flirting at work, please, avoid it, you will risk a lot!
- This is the first and most important step you need to take:
To judge for yourself whether you can flirt innocently at work or not, if you hesitate a little, please don’t do it, or at least, don’t blame me for what will happen to you in the future!
- Let’s talk now about the second step to innocently flirt at work: using your eyes.
If you would like to not get caught when you are flirting at work, please, don’t use words, just focus on using your body.
Did you know that our body language is the most efficient way to communicate with the opposite sex?
For example, you are interested in a woman at work, you would like to flirt with her and have fun with her, but deep down, you are scared of the troubles this may cause, so, better use your eyes.
Look her right in the eyes, smile, and then look at her lips, then, again, very slowly, brush her face and her features with your eyes, then look her right into her eyes, smile, and go away.
This is how you innocently flirt at work, without ever getting caught!
What can she do? Sue you for looking at her? I doubt this!
So, the most important thing for you to do is to keep your mouth shut, if you told her for example that she has great legs or that you like her smell, it’s sexual harassment, especially if you are her superior and you have lots to lose!
But if you do this, without opening your mouth and uttering one word, she will deep down feel that you are very interesting and highly attractive, without even saying one word.
But please, if she doesn’t react to you, in other words, if she seems not interested, let go, don’t nag her into liking you, she will never do and sooner or later, you will find yourself in lots of troubles, so, flirt with your eyes and your body language, but when you find her not interested, stop being interested as well.
- The second way to flirt at work is to use your imagination.
If you would like to flirt without getting caught, you need to use the first technique and this one as well.
When you are talking to her, imagine that she is in your arms, imagine that you are ravishing her with passionate kisses and having fun with her, imagine that you are caressing her passionately etc.
This will make your body look very sexy, attractive, and she will understand that you are flirting with her, because your body will produce different pheromone cocktails that her body is going to understand almost immediately, your eyes are going to become bigger and your body is going to face her, while she will become much more aroused when it comes to you.
The most important rule to flirt innocently at work is to never open your mouth, to not make it obvious and to have fun, but most importantly, when you feel that things are going the wrong direction, stop and move on!