I’m going to share with you certain characteristics and personality traits that you need to know and judge for yourself to see whether your girlfriend is right for you or not.
So, let’s begin.
- The first thing I need to ask you is whether you feel comfortable with her or not?
Most guys who complain about their girlfriends and have lots of doubts about them are always having comfort issues, but they just can’t find the word for it!
In other words, do you feel completely honest and confident when you are with her, does she make you feel good about yourself, and would you say that she is very important to you, meaning that she makes you feel good!?
If you answered with no, then, sorry, your girlfriend is not right for you, and you need to either confront her with this issue and find a “peaceful” way out or just leave her!
- The second question I’m going to ask you is related to your freedom of speech!
Would you say everything to your girlfriend?
I have a wonderful wife, we’ve been together for five years now, and after two beautiful children and lots of troubles and financial hassles, we even moved to a different country, in fact, a different continent, we still talk to each other freely, in fact, I tell her everything in my mind, even when it comes to my financial and professional life, and she does the same, and without this, I would never feel completely comfortable with her and we will be drifting apart!
So my question is: would you say everything to your girlfriend? Would you feel hesitant to share certain things with her?
If you say no, then, you have a difficult issue you need to deal with, most importantly, you don’t trust her a lot and you feel that you should be elsewhere rather than with her.
I know that most of these questions can be very irritating and somehow troubling as well, but they are extremely important for you in order to know whether your girlfriend is right for you or not, and if you have answered them negatively, then you are going to have lots of troubles if you don’t confront your issues with your girlfriend.
I highly recommend that you take a quiz in this website dedicated to this issue as well, it’s going to determine where your problem lies with your girlfriend and what you should do about it.