What to do when your ex is sending you mixed signals? Unfortunately, this is a very difficult question to answer, that’s why I’m going to reveal to you the techniques I use all the time when I’m facing a similar situation, they work amazingly well and they will make your life much more easier.
- The first thing you need to understand is that your ex is probably not sending you mixed signals at all!
I faced this situation many years ago, I got out of a terrible breakup with a girlfriend I really loved, after some few months, I would meet her at a friend’s house and she would be very nice to me, then, I would tell myself that she was sending me mixed signals because next time, when I met her, say, in the street, she will just turn her head away from me and not look at my direction!
However, after some few weeks of thinking about this, I came to the conclusion that it was just me, and that she has already turned the page and I was still reminiscing about her memories and thinking about her all this time!
So, always have this in mind: you may be the one trying to interpret everything from your ex as being mixed signals, when in fact, your ex may be minding his or her own business and not caring at all!
Well, you need to have this in mind and think about it before going on and solving this problem.
- What if you are sure that your ex is sending you mixed signals?! What to do then?
Well, there aren’t many things to do, trust me, mixed signals are one of the worst things you can deal with in relationships because they are poisonous, if you go ahead and try to understand them, you will feel terrible about yourself and you will never come to a conclusion, however, if you take your courage by the hand and go to the person who sends them, he or she may easily say “no, it’s really nothing, I don’t like you!” And move on with his or her life and feel like a hero! While you are feeling like dirt!
That’s why the best way for you to deal with your ex sending you mixed signals this is just ignore them, if he or she is interested in you, then it’s up to him or her to face you with his/her emotions and reveal how he/she feels about you, and trust me, if you do anything apart from this, you will find yourself in lots of troubles.
One more important advice: always ignore mixed signals, they don’t mean anything, and they are just a waste of time and a waste of cerebral power as they require a lot of thinking and a lot of energy from your part which doesn’t serve anything if you ask me.