My girlfriend won’t kiss me? What should I do?
I’ve received this question from many readers of this website, and unfortunately, most of them were in lots of troubles because they didn’t understand how to kiss their girlfriends and most horrifically, they didn’t understand when to do it!
So, let me help you out by sharing with you my knowledge about this:
- The first thing you need to understand is that your girlfriend doesn’t hate to be kissed!
After she rejects your kisses, you may feel that she doesn’t like to be kissed, you may even think that she is from a different breed or even worse, that you are terrible kisser and a terrible boyfriend!
Well, let me tell you this one thing:
You are not terrible at all, and she is completely normal, the only thing that you need to think about and really consider is that you didn’t follow the right steps before kissing her, in other words, you were too quick and you didn’t establish good rapport with her!
Let me tell you that I am a fantastically quick kisser, the moment I meet a girl, I do the right things to kiss her and after just some few minutes talking to her, I can kiss her without ever being rejected, and this is also what am going to show you here, if you use the same techniques with your girlfriend, you will kiss her next time you meet her and she will feel great about it.
The first thing you need to understand is that your girlfriend wants to be kissed, she desires to be kissed, in fact, she craves your kisses, but not the way you want to kiss her!
I’m sure that you have tried to kiss her too quickly or without establishing good rapport with her first, which is a terrible thing to do!
So, next time you meet your girlfriend, start first by listening to her, let her talk about herself, let her tell you about what is going on, in her life, school etc. you need to make her feel comfortable, because a girl who doesn’t feel comfortable will never kiss you!
Next, try to hold her hand, while you are talking to her, hold her hand and keep talking to her, play with her fingers a little, be a little sensual with her, and then, let go and keep talking to her like nothing has happened, this way, she will feel much more comfortable around you.
Now, it’s up to you to judge, if you feel that she isn’t kissable, then, please, don’t try to kiss her, but simply keep on listening to her and being a good boyfriend, but if you feel that she smiles a lot, she has lots of confidence about you and she feels completely relaxed in your company, then you can jump into the next and most important step:
- Kissing her.
When you are talking to her, before leaving her, look her right in the eyes, smile, and hold her hands, then, hold her gently towards you and kiss her for a minimum of three seconds, don’t try to force her, if she doesn’t want to, you can do nothing about this, just let go of her!
What if she still won’t kiss me!?
Well, you are probably with a very difficult girlfriend, she may has a lousy experience in the past, she may be in need of psychological help, she may even have some psychological issues, the best thing for you to do is to leave her on her own and go meet other people and even other girls, if she calls you again or texts you, tell her frankly that you want a girlfriend, not a friend, if she doesn’t want this, leave her for good.