I keep receiving so many e-mails from different readers about their romantic problems, and lately, a guy from New Hampshire sent me an e-mail in which he was asking me this very important question: she has a boyfriend but she likes me, what to do ?
It’s very obvious that this is a conflicting situation, on the one hand, he wants to talk to her and know her better, but on the other hand, she has a boyfriend and he feels unsure about what consequences this is going to bring to his life!
Well, this is my question: what are you going to get from talking to her? Would you like to have the same happen to you? Would you like your girlfriend to flirt with other guys?
Obviously no, you don’t want this happening to you, that’s why I’m going to advice you to forget about her!
If she is interested in you, she has to take risks, she has to leave her boyfriend and only be with you, otherwise, you should not take her very seriously and she is just trying to cause troubles in your life and flirt with you in order to probably make her boyfriend feel jealous!
Most of the time, this is what is going to happen in a relationship, a girlfriend is going to feel somehow bored or even worse, her boyfriend may be a manipulative person who flirts with other girls, so, to make him feel jealous, she is going to flirt with other guys and talk to them, sometimes, things can go very normally, in other words, nothing serious is going to happen, but most of the time, which is in reality all the time, things can go terrible very easily, and a boyfriend may get very jealous and may even cause some serious troubles to you!
You need to avoid this as much as possible, if she has a boyfriend but she likes you, you need to stop caring about her, and if she keeps on flirting and talking to you, try to avoid and ignore her as much as possible.
Are you sure she likes you?
Most of the time, we guys, like I used to be, tend to interpret everything a girl does to us as interest!
For example, if she smiles at you and say nice things to you, like a compliment or a cheer, you may think that she likes you, but deep down, she is just being friendly to you, in fact, she may have no feelings for you, but if you keep on focusing on these ideas, you will just ruin your relationship with her and her relationship with her boyfriend as well.
Better to avoid this as much as possible, it’s one of the best things to keep yourself away from harm and to also keep her away from you if she means to harm her boyfriend or you.