In this post, I’m going to share with you the most important information I have on whether you should kiss a girl on your first date with her or not and unfortunately, most guys are very hesitant about this and they may even think that it’s something forbidden to do during the first two dates, but what I’m going to tell you in this post may even surprise most of you, so, be ready for some ideas that will change your mind forever.
So, is it ok to her on your first date? Even worse, is it bad to kiss on the first date?
Well, the truth is that it’s an amazing idea to kiss on the first date, and if you don’t do it, you will be losing on a lot of amazing opportunities with girls later on, you will find yourself looking horrible afterwards and frustrating the girl with you.
In fact, from my own experience, I consider that kissing a girl on the first date is a must, if you don’t do it, your date has failed in my opinion!
Please, don’t understand this as a way of pushing you to do things against your will or even worse, against her own!
What I’m saying here is that you should try to kiss on a first date, at least, you should this idea is being valid, it doesn’t matter whether you succeed or not because deep down, you will know that you have tried and the girl is going to understand that you made everything possible to do it but you didn’t succeed, which is also very important to her because she will understand that you are desiring her and that you like her physically.
- So, how to get a kiss on your first date?
Of course, you need to understand that girls want to be kissed, if you neglect this very important idea, you will have a lot of troubles with them because most guys simply think that girls don’t want to be kissed and they just want to go out to talk and tell you about their problems!
But the reality is completely different, a girl is always going out with you expecting to be kissed and to be desired, a girl wants to be wanted, after all, think about it, why does she put all this makeup and all those efforts to look pretty?
It’s because she wants to seduce you and make you see her as highly desirable and highly interesting female.
And to get a kiss on your first date, you should follow these steps:
- The first one is to have a fantastic date.
I’ve already talked about this in some previous posts, you should read them as they are very important to master this area of dating.
- The second thing is to let her talk about herself.
In other words, listen to her and let her tell you as much information about her, in fact, if she is silent, encourage her to talk, talking makes girls feel less stressed and much more comfortable with you, and let me tell you that when girls feel comfortable, their desire for you increases dramatically.
- And the third step is to kiss.
Whether on the lips or on the cheeks, it doesn’t really matter.
Many guys keep asking me whether their kiss on a first date should be on the cheek or on the lips?
To me, it doesn’t really matter, as long as you kiss her.
But personally, I prefer a kiss on the cheek, it’s not very invasive to her and it’s a mixture of innocence, desire, shyness and courage, which leaves girls very perplexed and guessing about you, which is extremely attractive.
When you are walking with her, before you leave, talk to her for some few minutes, face to face, listen to her, smile at her, then, caress her hair with your fingers (only if you feel able to do it), tuck in some few hairs behind her ear and then kiss her on the cheek, look at her eyes again, smile, and say bye and leave.
Trust me, she will call her best friend immediately to tell her everything about what happened and the fact that it was the most romantic date she has ever been to and you may be “the one”.
Trust me, these tips are fantastic in order to have a great first date kiss.