I have helped hundreds of guys and couples deal with their dating and emotional problems and one of the most recurring ones I kept noticing all the time is the fact that some guys tend to be very weak and some women tend to be very strong.
And sometimes, a weak man can meet a strong woman and this can cause so many problems to both of them.
I still remember some three years ago I received an e-mail from a guy, he was telling me that he was very weak, not physically, but in terms of personality and psychology, he couldn’t look people right in the eyes, he was very hesitant and not sure of what to do in most occasions, needless to tell you that he was very pathetic, and his sister ended up introducing him to one of her friends who was working as a general manager of a large department store, she was very strong, very decisive and lonely!
They ended up being together and even marrying and having kids, yet this guy was all the time feeling very weak and dominated by this very strong woman.
What you do then? How do you deal with a strong woman when you are a weak man?
This is what I’m going to share with you in this post.
- The first and most important step is to change!
You must understand that the ideas and ways of thinking which cause your problems won’t solve them!
This means that you need to change as a person, you need to evolve into a strong being, and to do this, you need to change your self-esteem and self-confidence.
I myself used to be a very weak person, I grew up with a very strong father, he was very dominant and no one would dare argue with him or he would crush you!
That’s how I was brought up, I was very weak even with my teachers and friends, I would never raise my voice nor say what I have in mind!
However, after starting to notice that this was driving me crazy and making me depressed and very fragile, I started improving myself and looking for solutions, and I discovered that my biggest problem was with my self-esteem and self-confidence.
I had very low self-esteem, I didn’t think good of myself, that’s why I couldn’t voice my opinions, and I really think that this is the same with you as well.
If you would like to live peacefully with a strong woman, you have to become stronger man, stop thinking to yourself that one day, you are going to wake up with her in your arms feeling great about you and giving you the respect you need without fighting for it.
She will give you a terrible fight, she will hold her ground fearlessly and even worse, she will give you hell before she acknowledges your manhood and strength.
Unfortunately, I cannot give you a detailed course on how to improve your self-esteem, however, there are so many books you can use and materials you can consult to achieve this, one of the best is a book by renowned psychologist Nathaniel Brandon, it’s called: “Honoring The Self”, and it’s the only book I can recommend to you in order to grow your self-esteem and become stronger with women, it will help you understand what is wrong with you and most importantly, it will give you amazing exercises to increase not only your self-esteem, but also your self-confidence, this will make you a very powerful person in your community and most importantly, it will change the way you see yourself.