How to talk to a woman on the phone
Talking to a woman on the phone is so much easier and
simpler by applying these ten phone rules.
I’ve never found a situation so simple in appearance and so
complex in reality than talking to women on the phone.
It will seem like a really obvious thing to do, but then you
would find out that she doesn’t want to see you anymore or that
she is very cold towards you when you meet her.
This is all due to how you’ve talked to her on the
Here are my phone rules I use every time to make my
conversations completing and sexy to women and trust me,
sometimes, I’d hung up and they would call me immediately
because they were so charmed and attracted to me while talking
to them on the phone.
If you ask any sales man, he would tell you that talking to
a client on the phone is probably more important than meeting
Because he won’t be distracted a lot!
This is the same thing with women, if you want to talk to
her face to face, you will need a lot of attention and efforts
to draw her interest, but if you talk to her on the phone, she
would be grabbing it and only focusing on you and what you’ve
got to say.
Use this to your advantage.
Now, how can you talk to a woman on the phone?
- First, you’d need to get her phone the right
We can’t discuss talking with her on the phone without first
dealing with how you got it in the first place.
Did you beg for it?
Did you annoy her to give it to you?
Or did you ask for it in a calm and confident manner?
It’s very important and the way she gave you her number will
tell a lot about how she will deal with you when you call her
on the phone.
With this in mind, let’s say that you got it in a manly
Here are my rules to talking to a woman on the phone:
As a rule of thumb:
1. Never beg or ask for
her number in a humiliated manner.
Women may give it to you, but they won’t answer or even if
they did, they will be cold and distant.
2. Don’t call her before
the three days mark.
This is a very important rule, so pay close attention!
Always wait AT LEAST three days before calling her.
If you feel confident enough, you can break this rule, but
personality, I’d wait at least two days before calling her.
3. Never call a woman
This one too is very important, never call a woman
immediately, it’s a sign of weakness and neediness.
4. Rule four is to never
A lot of guys would call a woman and then they’d start
begging her for a date or talking to her for a long stretch of
This is the most direct way to end any attraction she had
5. Rule five is: don’t ask
for a date on your first call.
I’ve tried many things and approaches to getting dates with
women; this is the only one that would get me positive results
almost every time.
Let’s be direct here, why do most guys call women?
To get a date!
Women know this and they’d be expecting you to do it and
ready to terminate you cold!
The best thing is to phone her the first time to just chat
and then hung up, then on the second phone call, you’d ask her
for a formal date.
I may do this: call her the first time, be cocky and funny
with her, then call her a few days later, chat about things and
let her talk to me and then I’d tell her that I have to go
quickly, on the third phone call, I’ll tell her that I’ll be on
Saturday afternoon at this nice coffee shop and that she should
If she tells me that she is busy, I’d joke with her a little
and be a cocky with her about not wanting to be with me because
she knows I’m too sexy, then propose another free time.
That’s how you can minimize a lot of hassles and troubles
6. The sixth rule is: be
You can’t imagine how many guys will blow their chances with
a woman just because they couldn’t hang up.
They’d call her and as soon as she starts talking to them,
they’d listen to her, then talk for a few minutes (more than
fifteen), then try to make phone sex with her or something
stupid, then she’d be a little pissed at them and then she’d be
the one to hung up on them!!
Most guys behave this way; they think that the phone is a
tool to seduce her.
Well, no, the phone’s only role is to make you get a date
with her, if you want to seduce her, you got be face to face
So, be brief, talk a little and be straightforward with
7. The seventh rule is to
Don’t talk to her like an accountant would talk to his
clients, in other words, don’t make her fall asleep.
That’s a simple and direct way to never hear from her
8. The eight rule for
calling a woman on the phone is to tell her why you called
I wasn’t doing this in the past, but one day I was really
bored, I called a woman and I told her that I wanted to go get
some clothes and she should come with me, she was positive and
very nice and we met.
I was quit astonished by this, tried it again and it
It appears that women are fed up with this entire BS from
guys, so, if you call her the second time and told her that you
want to see her, she would probably feel great about you and
she will like you more.
Be direct with women, they will feel reassured about
9. Remember all these
Don’t just apply one of these and forget about the others,
it will mess the whole conversation for you.
Review this entire article and then see what you need to
tweak in your conversations.
Why not rehearse in your head a little, I’ve done it and it
has helped me a lot.
10. The tenth rule is:
always hang up first.
Don’t wait for her to hang up on your face, be the first to
say bye and go on with your life.
Women hate it when you were great and fun with your
conversation and then you said bye and hanged up on them,
however, it a thing they’d love to hate about you.
It’s a great way to show them that you’ve got a busy, great
These are my ten rules to talking to women on the phone, I
apply them every time and they work great.