I keep receiving so many interesting questions and comments from different readers, and lately, I received probably the most intriguing one: what does it mean when a woman rubs your back?
And this is what I’m going to do in this post: try to explain the dynamics behind such behavior and whether she is interested in you or not.
What does it mean when a woman rubs your back?
I was once minding my own business at work when a coworker came to me and started rubbing my back very gently, I just smiled, let her do her magic and enjoyed the moment, some few weeks later, we were having fun in a hotel room alone and naked!
I’m not trying to say here that every woman who is going to rub your back wants you sexually; my mother rubs my back all the time!
But the thing you need to understand here is that most often, when a woman rubs your back, it simply means that she is interested in you.
What is the dynamics behind this?
It’s quite easy to understand, women are nurturing creatures, God has created them with these attributes, they need to take care of others, for example, I don’t know if you have ever noticed this but little girls will always take good care of their little brothers and even their parents when they are little sick or tired, it’s just in their nature, but please, you need to be very open-minded about this, and don’t try to associate a woman rubbing your back with just nurturing, I’m going to explain this point further more.
When a woman rubs your back, it means that she has accepted you as someone important in her life, someone she likes, it may be unclear whether she wants you romantically or not, but what is clear is that she likes you and she wants to keep the relationship going on with you positively.
Otherwise, why would she start rubbing your back?
I’m sure that it’s quite easy now for you to understand that when a woman is very nice to you, it simply means that she is feeling comfortable around you, in other words, she likes spending time with you, she likes being with you.
What about sex?
Most guys are going to think that when a woman rubs their backs, it means that she is interested in them sexually!
Well, there is some truth to this, if you have already exchanged looks, sexy talk, flirting, and she starts rubbing your back soon, then she is sexually interested in you, but when she does it out of nowhere and without previous flirting between you two, then, it simply means that she is feeling comfortable with you and she is just nice.
Sometimes, we tend to forget, us guys, that women are very nice by nature, this is what I’ve talked about just some few lines ago when I told you that women are nurturing by nature, they will try to make you feel comfortable whether they are interested romantically in you or not, and this is one of the most important things you need to know about them: they are nurturing, they would like to make people feel good around them, especially the ones they like, and sometimes, if you don’t have the right judgment, you can miss things, so, remember this: if she rubs your back, she is feeling comfortable around you and she likes you.