Many readers have commented that I use the term “making eye contact” all the time in my writing, and they don’t understand what it means exactly, that’s why I’m writing this post today, to tell you what does making eye contact mean and how to use it well in dating.
You may be looking to understand and know the meaning of eye contact because you have read about it in some book or magazine, you may be not interested in dating, but if you are, let me congratulate you and tell you that this is one of the most effective ways to not only attract the opposite sex, but to also make a very lasting an amazing first impression on the person you are interested in.
If you are in a relationship, you should also focus on making eye contact, it’s very essential to keep rapport and also to make the other person feel that you like him or her.
Making eye contact simply means looking into someone else eyes while not looking away or looking down.
But, be careful!
Sometimes, making eye contact can be very dangerous, especially if you are dealing with aggressive and manipulative people, they can perceive it as a threat!
So, when you are making eye contact with another person, always try to stay below the five seconds rule.
In other words, if you are dealing with a same-sex person, for example, you are a guy and you keep looking at another guy, making eye contact with him, don’t exceed five seconds, or it can be a declaration of war and conflict!
Eye contact in the animal world is very meaningful, it’s always has these two interpretations: fight or fu*k!
- So, how to make eye contact when you are flirting, in other words, when you are with the opposite sex?
Well, it’s very easy, but the worst thing is that most people don’t know how to do it.
Look at the person you are interested in, right into his/her eyes, then, smile and look at his or her lips, in a very desiring way, then, look at her or his eyes again.
This can be very revealing of your intentions, especially when you are dating women, you have to establish strong eye contact, it can make or break a relationship very quickly, and if you are dealing with a very attractive women, you have to be very determined about not breaking your eye contact first.
This is what making eye contact means, if you have a question or a comment, don’t forget to post it in the section below.