I’ve already published a post about why do women cheat on their husbands, yet, I’m not repeating myself here, I’m going to give you different ideas and different statistics about why do women cheat on their boyfriends, which is completely different.
With her husband, a woman may be in a long-term relationship for at least two years; this will create boredom and lots of monotony in the relationship which is going to result in her looking for another man to revive the passion and to make her feel desired and love again!
However, with a boyfriend, things can be very different, sometimes; you may be with a woman/girl for just some few weeks and she cheats on you!
This is what I’m going to talk about in this post, these types of situations!
- The first reason why women cheat on their boyfriends is because they have very low self-esteem.
If you check out my previous posts on why women cheat on their husbands, you will not find me talking about self-esteem and self-confidence at all!
It’s because they are not the main causes of wives cheating on their husbands, it’s something completely different, I highly recommend that you check out that post for more information.
However, when it comes to girlfriends, low self-esteem can be devastating.
A girlfriend with low self-esteem can cheat very easily on the first guy who makes her giggle and laugh, it’s not because of you, it’s because of her, she has zero control on herself, she thinks that she is ugly, she thinks that she is not appreciated, and even worse, she thinks that she is not enough, that’s why the first guy who is going to approach her and make her have some fun is going to use her very quickly!
In other words, she was a bad girlfriend in the first place!
- The second reason is because they are not satisfied.
Sometimes, as a boyfriend, you may think that you are satisfying your girlfriend, but the reality can be something completely different, she is probably not satisfied sexually or emotionally, even worse, you may have no intimacy with her, and you may be just holding hands and trying to walk together without ever thinking of kissing her or being intimate with her, as a rule of thumb, if a woman doesn’t feel sexually satisfied and appreciated, she is going to start looking for another person who will satisfy her!
Sex is very important to both guys and girls, and the moment you start neglecting her sexually, she is going to feel boredom and neglect and these will result in some very dangerous consequences!
- The third reason is too much attention!
I’ve had this happen to me once, I was focusing on a girlfriend for a long period of time, I was calling her daily, I was always trying to be with her and I wanted to have her in a relationship as quickly as possible, she ended up breaking up with me and going to her previous manipulative and abusive boyfriend!
In fact, I later found out that I was cheated on, she was secretly visiting and sleeping with him, she didn’t withstand my attention and my care, that’s why I highly recommend that you start caring about yourself first, try to enjoy yourself by yourself, do things you really love, enjoy spending time doing things you love and meeting people you like, the more you neglect yourself and care about her, the more she is going to withdraw from you.